Hi everyone! I'm new to this, but
hopefully someone on here can give me some
advice. I'm a 17yr old sophomore
psychology major. Last month I had
unprotected sex with a guy that I had been
seeing for a minute. A few days later my
period came, but it wasn't like it
normally was. I took 3 pregnancy tests
and they all came back negative. This
month my period was about 3-4 days late
and I decided to take another one today.
I was super surprised when it came back
positive. I have been noticing some
changes in my body and I thought of that
as a possibility about a week ago. Now I
have no idea what to do.
I have overcome sooooo many obstacles and
succeeded. Now I have no idea what to do.
My mother is sooo proud of me and I don't
want to disappoint her. She still thinks
i'm somewhat of a virgin. Growing up
isn't a problem because I did that a long
time ago. My only issue is telling my
mother. She is a single parent and has
done so much for my brother (r.I.P.) and
i. I don't want her to feel like she has
failed, but she does need to know asap. I
wrote a letter, but I don't know if that's
the best way to do it.
My mother has been an excellent example.
Of course i'm going to have to do this
alone because the guy is gone and it's not
worth the stress and aggravation to get
him back.
I need help! If anyone has advice or "two
cents" to offer I will gladly accept it.
It is greatly appreciated!!! Thank you
:-)
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-31-05 16:01pm
I don';t know what to say. Never really
known anyone who had their periods and was
still pregnant. I would go to a doc's
find out if everything was ok and then
decide what you;re gonna do and how you'll
tell you mom.
Good luck
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prettygirl215
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Texas
Posted: 06-01-05 15:00pm
I think that you should go get checked
just to make sure. I feel that it is only
right and responsible that you talk to
your mom face to face. It is hard to tell
your parents that you are pregnant, but
they deserve to know. Who know she could
be more accepting than you think. Good
luck. :)
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bottles789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 3 Location: NJ
Thanks Posted: 06-13-05 15:46pm
I appreciate all of the love and advice
that everyone gave me. Unfortunately I
miscarried and it started june 2. I am
going through the process to see if I need
to have a d&c done. Thank you anyway.
I am extremely depressed, but there's
nothing that I can do now.
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prettygirl215
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Texas
Posted: 06-14-05 10:45am
I am sorry to hear that. I know how you
feel, I have had a miscarriage. You will
get through it. Cheer up :)
