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Q: I Think Im Unfertile...please Help Me

asked by: anb04 on May 31st, 2005

New User

Im only 19 years old but im scared to death that I am unfertile and won't be able to have children in the future. Ive been sexually active since I was 16...I am not on birth control and I dont always use condoms. Guys have ejaculated inside me many times and ive never gotten pregnant from it. I dont want to get pregnant, so I guess its good that I havent yet. But im just scared that there has been many chances for it to happen and it never has. Also...My periods have almost always been irregular. I will go for months without getting it and then sometimes ill get it extremely heavy with alot of very painful cramping. Please can anyone help me and tell me if there are signs of being unfertile. I love children. They are my life. I work at a daycare and im majoring in elementary education. Please tell me anything you know. Thank you so much!

Replies(4)

WanaBaMom

replied on June 1st, 2005

Experienced User

Hey girl! I know where you're coming from. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and for a year we haven't been using any type of birth control the whole time. No pill, patch, shot, or condoms, he doesn't even pull out. Everytime we make love he goes in me (sorry tmi) but my point is, I have not gotten pregnant through out the whole year. So i'm starting to think the same as well. But sometimes it takes longer for others and sometimes there are problems. But what you can do is go see a doctor and get a full check up. And to regulate your periods (since you don't want kids right now) get on the pill. They help. Hopefully I helped in someway, and now you know you're not the only one!! :) good luck.

Jada

etaka

replied on June 1st, 2005

New User

Pregnancy Is a Game

Hello girl, i'm having thesame problem. I'm sexaully active since 3years.
Have got boy friends, had sex without any protection; yet I have never been pregnant

i'm now with my boy 10months now , I love him like crazy and really wanna make a baby. Yet not getting pregnant

lately I thaught I might be pregnant but nothing. I went to my doctor who advice me to quit smoking . You are not infertile, you're still very young ,getting pregnant is really a game , and remember the most fertile couple has got 20per, chance of having a baby each month so just be patient.

etaka

replied on June 1st, 2005

New User

Pregnancy Is a Game

lil_blaze2004

replied on June 1st, 2005

Moderator

I thought something was wrong with me too for a while. I got pregnant at 16 & 19 on the pill and miscarried both times. Then with this boyfriend we have been having unprotected sex since almost the begining (we both went and got tested before having unprotected sex)we've been together 4yrs. I figured something was wrong with me or him. All of a sudden in oct I found out I was preggy, I am now due in 3 weeks. I guess before just wasn't my time.

Sometimes it's just not time. If you're really worried about it you can go see a doc.

A friend of mine on another forum just found out she does not ovulate so has to take special drugs to help her conceive. There are so many things it could be or it could be nothing at all.

Good luck!

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