My boyfriend and his pregnant friend have
been friends for a long time and sometimes
he comes to my house and sees me and we
have been together for 6 months now and I
just think that him and his friend are
going to get together because she is going
to have a baby and all and he wants kids
and I do to but I dont need them right now
I am finishing my last year of highschool
next year and I dont want to screw it all
to pieces either I just need help on what
I should do because I feel like I am the
one who did all of this and I feel so
alone I dont know what to do I have had
time alone with him and he seems fine
about how I feel about his friend its just
I think I need to talk to someone I have a
shrink and all but sometimes she doesnt
help me and isnt there all the time but I
really do love my boyfriend what should I
do please help me I am falling to pieces
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poetmcc
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 273
Posted: 05-31-05 18:14pm
Are you upset your boyfriend's friend is
having a baby and you're not? Or are you
sad that she is pregnant? Your post was
kind of confusing, sorry.
Regardless sometimes like you said talking
to someone helps- and you dont have to see
a shrink, maybe a friend or parent or
teacher or school counselor can help talk
to to you about why you are depressed.
Also you are very young if you are still
in high school, I am guessing like 17 or
18...Try to join a school activity that
will keep your mind off him and what is
going on...Concentrate on college maybe or
whatever you plan to do after high
school...This may distract you.
Take care and hope you feel better soon.
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confused_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 102 Location: vermont
I Feel Alone Posted: 05-31-05 18:17pm
Im not sad that she is having a baby and I
am not and I dont feel sad about any of
that its just I am very nervous about her
having the baby she didnt like me and
still doesnt and all that I just think
that she is going to try take my boyfriend
away from me and all I really dont want
that to happen an I needed someone to talk
to I just think she is trying to get him
to dump me due to her conditions
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sarahk
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 108 Location: England
Posted: 06-02-05 11:05am
Its hard when you love someone....And your
probably not going to like what I have to
say **just my opinion!**
i presonally, if it were me, would get
out. I'm only 22 and I have been in a 5
year long relationship with a guy who has
kids. Its really hard, not just looking
after them at weekend but the fact that it
plays on your mind that the man you love
has children with someone else. I'd never
do it again, that may sound harsh, but I
grew attached to those kids and when we
split it was hard on them and on me. I
never want to go through that again. Once
I had split from him I realised how much
my life had changed, I no longer had to do
'kids' things at the weekend, I could be
me and do 22 year old stuff and now I
wouldnt change it for the world! I feel
free!!!!!!
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