Hello I just turned 16, I need help I lost
my virginity tonight but I just could not
get hard. I feel like I did not do what I
should have. She did orgasm however.
What is wrong with me?
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sevenedge
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Greenville, NC
7 Posted: 06-03-05 09:01am
Excitement and nervousness can go both
ways on erection. I once was with at the
time what I thought was the most beautiful
girl ever I had been with. I wanted it
so bad, that no matter what was done by
her or me, I couldnt get hard.
Eventually with ginseng,gin and juice, and
then benadryl I was able to. It wasn't
any of those products though, it was all
in my head. Don't worry bro, you will be
fine. As you get more comfortable you
will be ready.,,,,7
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Super Nova
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Posts: 19 Location: NC
Posted: 06-03-05 12:24pm
Thank you for your reply. I feel kind of
bad about not being able to get hard. The
girl I was with already has a bf both of
them are black I am white. She may be
trying to recreate the movie "helen of
troy" her bf knows about me and wants to
fight me. She has a phone were she can
talk to 3 or more people at once. And I
have talked to her bf and a few of her
friends. Her bf needless to say wants to
kill me.
And she has a ego bigger than the solar
system, when I was going home from her
house she called me up on my cell phone
and asked when I needed to be back. I
told her 10:00 and she said "i don't want
you getting in trouble I know I am special
and all but please don't get in trouble.
Also when we were having sex she was
talking on the phone. And to top it all
off when she called me when I got home I
told her I needed to go to bed. She was
like "fine, forget you!" and then hung up.
The funny part is she does not understand
how I must have felt when she was useing
the phone when we were doing it.
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roflzor6666
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 55
Posted: 11-26-05 08:40am
Um nova your relationship with this girl
is edit find somone who likes you for real
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cd998776
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Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 12-01-05 00:22am
m3rcuryd3ath
wrote:
dude lol stop telling this
guy that you people used viagra, hes
!@#^ing 16.
some people just don't get it...
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corryredblack
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Salt Lake
Posted: 12-01-05 04:10am
jerryjb5959
wrote:
dude,
you really need to try some stamina
rx or veroxin 7. If you can't keep
you dork stiff, you are missing all the
fun. Try stamina rx or veroxin 7 these
they work and because you know you are
going to perform, you will be able to get
over your anxiety about going soft maybe
you won't even need to use them in the
future to keep your dork
stiff.
right on brother! I use viagra (but I
have heard from friends the herbal stuff
works well too) until I get to know a
woman is clean and then I put her on the
pill since I can stay hard no problem when
going bareback. I am telling everyone
out there that it is normal to not be able
to feel anything through a condom. Get
some help and don't get a disease like I
did years back. Don't be afraid to use
something to stay hard if you can't do it
on your own. Tell your doctor, try some
herbal stuff- just do what ever it takes.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 12-01-05 06:53am
Honey I dont think you need viagra I think
you need a different girl this one sounds
crazy
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cd998776
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Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 12-01-05 17:12pm
corryredblack
wrote:
cd998776
wrote:
m3rcuryd3ath
wrote:
dude lol stop telling this
guy that you people used viagra, hes
!@#^ing 16.
some people just don't get
it...
no! You just don't get it dill rod
did you ever cosider that you are a f-in
jerk. I really wish I could kick you
in the teeth. Its dorks like you that
made me feel to scared to speak up when I
was 16 and 17 and could not stay hard with
a condom. I ended up getting warts on
my penis. Its perfectly normal for
guys of any age not to be able to maintain
an errection with a condom.
calm down; I completely agree with you, it
is possible for anyone, of any age to have
difficulty maintaining an erection using a
condom. I was refering to the fact that
you're a minor, and that "happyharry" was
telling you to use viagra, and agreeing
with "m3rcuryd3ath" that you're a minor
and therefor shouldn't be using it. I
completely understand the problem you're
having.
Just as a thought, you might want to
extend foreplay as long as possible. This
will help to get you and keep you
"mentally arroused." your ability to
maintain an erection and ejaculate/orgasm
is mostly mental. If you are in the
right mental state, and find what's
happening arrousing, you can keep your
erection for an extended period of time...
