Alright i'm 17 years old and theres no
possible way I could be pregnant my
parents would kill me unless I did it
myself. It all started about 2 days after
I had sex with my boyfriend and I started
getting a pain in my lower left side and
it was unlike menstrual cramps it was pain
soo after a while I started my period or
what I thought was my period but, it was
real light still looked the same but,
light soo I went to the doctor and they
did an examine but, I was soo scared that
I didn't tell them I was sexually active
and she said that I had an ovarian cyst
that ruptured and I started feeling better
about everything but, now its been a month
and now im getting nausea and its not real
bad and I have none of the other symptoms
but, im soo extremely scared soo please
help!!! :?
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 06-07-05 07:38am
Okay around your sexual incounter when was
your last period nad are you regular?
What I mean do you get your period een
month and on time. Lets start here first
and then we'll talk about other stuff.
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-08-05 00:08am
3kizz
wrote:
okay around your sexual
incounter when was your last period nad
are you regular? What I mean do you get
your period een month and on time. Lets
start here first and then we'll talk about
other stuff.
alright I had sex on the 14th and started
my period on the 22nd and I wasn't suppose
to start for another 6 days and sometimes
my periods are regular and sometimes there
not. Like here lately they have been
early but, this was the only period that
was light but, I asked my doctor about it
and she said that it was because im not
fully developed and that I could be
irregular sometimes but, like I said I
never told her that I was sexually active
which is really bad on part and then again
I had sex tonight and like I don't have
any of the symtoms and im thinking that
why im getting nauseated is because of
this medicine im on cause thats one of the
symtoms so I think im gonna stop taking
the medicine and see what happens.. Im
just praying im not cause I can't tell my
parents.. Please reply back
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ImagineNothing
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 4 Location: California
Hey There... Posted: 06-08-05 01:00am
I can understand your situation with
parents.I am almost 25 though.But being so
young,as tough as it is(cause sex is
great),stop having sex until your ready.I
mean if you end up pregnant I would want
to be in a situation where I can tell my
parents,support myself.Which sounds like
something you aren't in.
Blessings,
suzanne
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 06-08-05 08:14am
First of all, I don't want to be rude or
anything, but sex does come with
consequences. Take this from someone who
knows. I think I am much older then you
and have two kids with my husband.
Children are not easy. As a parent you
need to think of everything for them.
Its not just feeding and clothing them,
there are other needs that children
require.
At this point in your life you need to
really find out if you are pregnant and be
truthful with your healthcare provider.
Start there. If it turns out you are
pregnant, then your parents need to know.
You already know how they will react.
But they are your parents and good parents
will be mad for awhile but will never turn
you or your child away. For me I love my
girls unconditionally. So act responsible
and find out for sure. One more piece of
advise if I may. Protect yourself next
time. Be incontrol of your life b/c its
your life and no one can do a better job
at it.
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-08-05 10:13am
3kizz
wrote:
first of all, I don't want
to be rude or anything, but sex does come
with consequences. Take this from
someone who knows. I think I am much
older then you and have two kids with my
husband. Children are not easy. As a
parent you need to think of everything for
them. Its not just feeding and clothing
them, there are other needs that children
require.
At this point in your life you need to
really find out if you are pregnant and be
truthful with your healthcare provider.
Start there. If it turns out you are
pregnant, then your parents need to know.
You already know how they will react.
But they are your parents and good parents
will be mad for awhile but will never turn
you or your child away. For me I love
my girls unconditionally. So act
responsible and find out for sure. One
more piece of advise if I may. Protect
yourself next time. Be incontrol of your
life b/c its your life and no one can do a
better job at
it.
thank you very much!!! I have my whole
life ahead of me and if im gonna do
anything like that I need to be way more
careful and make sure things go the way I
want. More than anything i'm scared of
the disappointment they will have in me.
My step sister got pregnant when she was
15 or 16 and had an abortion which I would
never do that but, i'm just not ready for
all of this and it really scares me but,
thank you so much for the advice. I
appreciate it very much!!
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Re: Hey There... Posted: 06-08-05 10:16am
imaginenothing
wrote:
i can understand your
situation with parents.I am almost 25
though.But being so young,as tough as it
is(cause sex is great),stop having sex
until your ready.I mean if you end up
pregnant I would want to be in a situation
where I can tell my parents,support
myself.Which sounds like something you
aren't in.
Blessings,
suzanne
thank you for the advice. I'm going to be
a senior next year and I have my whole
life ahead of me and if im going to be
having sex I need to protect myself better
and be on birth control and everything.
This is the first boyfriend I have done
anything with all of my other ones the
farthest i'd let them go is touching me
and making out and other than that there
was no oral sex nothing!! My boyfriend
and i, neither of us are ready for any of
this soo thanks soo much!!!
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scottb8855
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 35 Location: Portage, Wi
Wow Posted: 06-08-05 10:18am
If your scared about getting pregnant dont
have sex hard but dont until you are ready
for a baby. Be on birth control and use
a condom every time not just once in
awhile be smart
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 06-09-05 00:25am
If you went to your doctor with those
symptoms, it is almost guaranteed that
they did a pregnancy test. They do many
such tests on girls who swear they ahve
never even seen a guy ever. The doctor
will trust the test more than trust what a
teen girl will tell them.
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-09-05 21:38pm
steen
wrote:
if you went to your doctor
with those symptoms, it is almost
guaranteed that they did a pregnancy test.
They do many such tests on girls who
swear they ahve never even seen a guy
ever. The doctor will trust the test
more than trust what a teen girl will tell
them.
yea im pretty sure they did a pregnancy
test but, would they be able to tell a
week and a half after.. Already? And
with the nausea I had just started to get
it last week. And I stopped taking this
medicine and it has pretty much gone away
every now and then I won't feel good but,
I hoping its because of stress. This
upcoming saturday will be 5 months do u
think I would have felt more symtoms by
now? Or started feeling something more?
Please reply back!! Thanks soo much!!
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-10-05 12:33pm
Hey everyone, I took another pregnancy
test this morning first thing well
whenever I got up but, it was first
morning urine. Well anyways, it was
negative which is good I hope. My period
is suppose to come on the 19th and if it
doesn't come then i'm going to get a blood
test. Tell me what everyone thinks..
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 06-10-05 14:19pm
If your period isn't due till the 19th,
then you have still a while to test.
Some hpt can't detect the pregnancy
hormone till the day of your missed or
several days after. Although first
reponse hpt can detect as early as 5 days
early. I my opinion wait till the 19th.
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-10-05 16:12pm
3kizz
wrote:
if your period isn't due
till the 19th, then you have still a while
to test. Some hpt can't detect the
pregnancy hormone till the day of your
missed or several days after. Although
first reponse hpt can detect as early as 5
days early. I my opinion wait till the
19th.
but I had my period about a week after I
had sex it was just light and then I
tested last week and it was negative and
then again this week and it was negative
and im gonna wait cause like I said I
can't be for sure but, im just wondering
what everyone thinks.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 06-10-05 16:25pm
Just be accurate, test on the 19th that is
when your period is actually due.
