Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 8 Location: yaounde ,cameroon
My Boo, Is a Polygamist Posted: 06-05-05 13:43pm
I do not know what this relationship is
all about.
I'm 22years old and my boyfriend 45.He
lives with a lady in the house, but not
married. When we first mee, he promised
to me he's going to send away his girl
friend to live with me. 2months, later,
he realised his girl friend was pregnant
for him. He told me nothing about his
girl's pregnancy and I discovered it on my
own.
He tells me i'm the one he loves
eventhough he lives with the one inside.
He invested in a shop I now own, pays my
house bills, and food.
I told him i'pregnant , and to my greatest
supris he asked my to abort my baby.
I can'nt understand why he who says he
loves me wants my baby out;
worst of all he never passes the nights
with me.
Somebody please tell me is love or what to
do.
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Staylor
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 93
Well Posted: 06-25-05 18:58pm
I hope your name is actually on the
shop... I think you need to make a
decision, who is more important the baby
or the man that has another gf and would
rather have a child with that woman.
Think about it will he ever be with you or
will he continue being with this other
woman.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 06-27-05 12:42pm
Stop listening to what he says.
Start listening to what he does.
Actions speak louder than words.
Now, take this knowledge and reanalyze
your relationship with him.
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 8 Location: yaounde ,cameroon
I'm Feeling Better Posted: 06-28-05 05:45am
Thanks for all your concern girls. My
name is on the shop. I'm in love with
this guy but not that blind.
He tells me he was not ready for a baby,
but I think he's quiet happy being a dad.
I wanna forget him but it's not that easy,
and I doubt if i'll ever fall in love
after him. I'm really lonely like akon
sings.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 06-28-05 09:48am
I'm not a lady. ;)
didn't realize you guys listened to akon
down in camroon. Anyway, you'll fall in
love again if you let yourself fall in
love again. You don't think that perhaps
he's not ready for a baby wit you because
well... He already has someone else, and
a child with her?
Stop for a second and put aside your
feelings for him. Try to assess his
feelings for you. He's with this other
girl, has a child with her, to him, you're
the "girl on the side".. No matter how
you look at it, you're second in his book
and the other girl is first.
