Joined: 05 Jun 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Red Falls, Cali
What Is Wrong With Me ? Posted: 06-05-05 22:22pm
I dont even know how to ask this.... Ive
only had sex with one girl, and maybe 5
times we tried it..... I couldnt hold it,
I couldnt last long, not even a minute...
Even when she performed oral I wouldnt be
able to last long... But I can masterbate
for a very long period. What does this
mean.. And what can I do to fix this ?
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bobvila
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jun 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Red Falls, Cali
Posted: 06-08-05 13:53pm
No one has any idea ....?
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dane211
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2005 Posts: 124
Nothing Wrong Posted: 06-08-05 14:12pm
There is nothing 'wrong' with you. You
just need to learn how to control your
premature ejaculation. Do what is called
the 'squeeze technique'. While your g/f
jerks you off or while she performs oral,
she or you need to have your hand wrapped
around your shaft and just as you feel
you're about to cum, she stops and you
squeeze your glans at the top of your
shaft until the feeling subsides (this
could be seconds or up to 1/2 minute or
more). Keep doing this every time you
have sex (you don't have to do only this-
just a couple of times before you go ahead
and cum) and do it while masturbating
also. After a number of times of this
(there is no 'norm' # of times) you will
have a better countrol of withholding your
urge to cum. Good luck.
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Alianedr123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 06-29-05 11:41am
Dane211> I am not 100% sure where you
mean by when you say squeeze "your glans
at the top of your shaft".
You mean right were your dick comes out or
under the head?
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phoenix_fkr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: lancashite
Posted: 06-29-05 11:46am
Yup that bit there.
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dane211
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2005 Posts: 124
Head Posted: 06-30-05 15:05pm
Right under your head. Your head is the
glans.
Let us know how it works for you.
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joecool33333
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jun 2005 Posts: 3 Location: nunya
Rthysed Posted: 07-01-05 08:42am
Tyseds
Last edited by joecool33333 on 10-16-05 23:41pm; edited 1 time in total
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ian_cana
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2005 Posts: 49
Hey Posted: 07-03-05 18:44pm
Listen, the head of your dick, theres a
rim, very sencitive. Look at your
erected dick, and where the head joins
the rest of the shaft... Squeeze under
the rim. I found it on my own, so just
take a look. My best suggestion for
bobvila is that if you know youre going to
have sex that night, masturbate before
hand. You'll still cum that niht, cept
you'll be more calm.
