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mom2trevor

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Posted: 06-05-05 23:19pm

I've noticed that pro-choice always seems to link to one sight when discussions of regretted abortion appear.

There are actually quiet a few for people that *do* regret abortion. I think it's more common than the pro-choice wants to admit.

Afterabortion.Com
standupgirl.Com
postabortionpain.Com
hopeafterabortion.Com
rachelsvineyard.Org


this is just a *small* few....Most of these contain personal stories from women who deeply regret abortion.

If so many people don't regret abortion then why is imnotsorry you're only link? Why are there not many sights devoted to people who are so *happy* they had abortions?
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mom2trevor

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Posted: 06-06-05 00:17am

Well thank you for posting something other than imnotsorry

that sight has been posted to death.

And afterabortion.Com is neutral politically but it deals with pass.
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mom2trevor

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Posted: 06-06-05 00:19am

One of your websights probably should not have been posted on here as it teaches people how to self abort....

You probably know which one that is.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 07:06am

Because self termination is both irresponsible and dangerous.
Do you support home termination pc?
I thought that you would be against it after all isn't the prochoice argument that if termination is made illegal many women would home terminate and risk killing themselves?
And yet you advocate a site that instructs on what to use for home termination.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 07:22am

Actualy I also post on the dangers of pregnancy and childbirth as well as the dangers on termination.

Which is more than you do if you really want to make people aware of all aspects of termination then stop infering that it is a walk in the park.

I happen to think that a home birth is a wonderful option to have but there is no way on this earth that I would advocate a site telling women how to self deliver that is down right irresponsible and dangerouse to the women you claim to want to help.

I have always stated that childbirth and pregnancy have there dangers read the dangers of pregnancy thread.

I beleive that anything that endangers a womans life should be publicised not painted over in the name of choice.
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Posted: 06-06-05 07:38am

I think the reason that most women who have had an abortion don't go on and on about it, is because they made the right decision and then go and get on with their lives. They don't need to dwell on it particularly. That's certainly the case with the women I know who've had one. It wasn't the right pregnancy at the right time, and that was it. No big deal.

It's only the ones who feel they made the wrong decision that let it take over their whole existence, and they get some kind of therapy out of wallowing in their pain and guilt, and feel they need to stop other women from having the choice that they did.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 08:10am

It has nothing to do with whether or not I like the link it is the fact that you advocate something that is so dangerouse in the name of choice i'm sorry but self terminating is dangerous and irresponsible and I don't think that advocating it is in the best intrest of your cause.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:23am

And why would she be unable to obtain a legal termination?
How far into gestation do these herbs work(is it early or a late termination)?
Would the woman have to go through with delivery or would it be like a spontanious miscarriage?
I'm not trying to be a health forum these are genuine questions.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:30am

So in reality you have no idea how it works and you cannot explain something which you advocate.
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:37am

Yes I would but as I am in no way intrested in advocating something that is so dangerous to women.
As it is you advocating them I just thought you may like to explain how they work but still as long as it kills a fetus/baby it doesn't matter how it works or how it may affect the mother does it?
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:45am

You do not give information out.L.I.A.R.
If you did you would have answered my very straight forward questions.
Yes I do post information on termination but I also post an opinion with it that makes it clear that I do not advocate termination.
So are you going to answer the questions now or are you really advocating something that you no diddly about?
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Posted: 06-06-05 11:45am

The map (morning after pill) is one thing, but going and taking certain herbs and stuff can soemtimes do more damage than good. It will just damage the fetus, not abort it so that if the woman continues with her pregnancy, the baby will come out with mega-probs.

I've also come to realize that the people who regret aborting are the ones that do it for others (ie: their family or bf) theones that do it for themselves are usually ok with their decision, it's the others that are usually not ok. So maybe if these girls/women had more respect for themselves instead of having to heed to what their "man" tells them there wouldn't be so many unwanted abortions.

I would never do anything a man told me to do. My ex was muslim and told me to get an abortion when I was 19 or he'd break up with me and I just laughed at him. I decided after a couple of weeks on my own to go for one because I had done a lot of hard drugs before knowing I was pregnant (i had to do a lot of thinking) and luckily (i look at it that way) I miscarried the day before I was suppose to go in for the termination. This time thank god this baby is extremelly wanted and loved by both mommy and daddy. Except mommy wants him out now!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 06-06-05 11:47am

Lol you have wanted him out for weeks not long now lil .
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:52am

fishx wrote:
lol you have wanted him out for weeks not long now lil .


fish what do I do??????? It's so hot up here my feet look like tree trunks. Is it only fresh pineapple that works? I'm almost 38 weeks so he'd be fine if mikey just yanked him out right????? L.O.L
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FISHX

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Posted: 06-06-05 11:55am

Lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can
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Posted: 06-06-05 12:15pm

fishx wrote:
lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can


thanks :p

by the way... There's a bird outside my bedroom window that wakes me up everyday. What can I do to find out what it is????
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Posted: 06-06-05 12:17pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
fishx wrote:
lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can


thanks :p

by the way... There's a bird outside my bedroom window that wakes me up everyday. What can I do to find out what it is????


ask our resident birdwatcher, steen.
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 06-06-05 12:19pm

foreverblue wrote:
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
fishx wrote:
lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can


thanks :p

by the way... There's a bird outside my bedroom window that wakes me up everyday. What can I do to find out what it is????


ask our resident birdwatcher, steen.


lmao.... It was a joke blue!!! Love the pic!!! Exactly how I pictured it!
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Posted: 06-06-05 12:24pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
foreverblue wrote:
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
fishx wrote:
lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can


thanks :p

by the way... There's a bird outside my bedroom window that wakes me up everyday. What can I do to find out what it is????


ask our resident birdwatcher, steen.


lmao.... It was a joke blue!!! Love the pic!!! Exactly how I pictured it!
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Amazing what adult education course's you can get nowadays lmao
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 06-06-05 12:26pm

foreverblue wrote:
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
foreverblue wrote:
lil_blaze2004 wrote:
fishx wrote:
lol be patient and enjoy the quiet while you can


thanks :p

by the way... There's a bird outside my bedroom window that wakes me up everyday. What can I do to find out what it is????


ask our resident birdwatcher, steen.


lmao.... It was a joke blue!!! Love the pic!!! Exactly how I pictured it!
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Amazing what adult education course's you can get nowadays lmao


midlife change of career I guess.-lol
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