I am going to the doc today to see if she
will put me on antidepressants, I need
something to make me happy geez. I am
tired all the time and I lack motivation.
I just recently got married and aside from
my husband looking at porn geez that
helps! My self confidence has hit a
bottom low. I know I am a very beautiful
girl i'm told by him and others often and
I use to model, but latley I just feel
like i'm so ugly esp when he looks at
girls I feel are more attractive. I'm
constantly asking him if he thinks i'm
pretty or fat. And i'm getting tired of
feeling a lower standard of myself. I cry
when I see he's looked at porn or some
pics of girls on bikes, I cry when I think
i'm not good enough and this is not me.
My confidence level use to be alot higher
and i'd like to be there again. Can
anyone help? I've heard good things about
wellbutrin. It doesn't help that he's
leaving in about three weeks to go to
kuwait for 4 months.
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itslowered
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Tampa, Florida
Posted: 06-06-05 16:54pm
Hello, I have never done wellbutrin, so I
cant say if it will help you but maybe a
therapist will be able to talk to you
about your issues, and give you that
confidence back~ and if it makes you feel
any better I mean ive never been married
but I look at porn even with my girl and
we been together for 2 1/2 yrs so it could
be natural for us men. I dont think hes
gonna find any biker chicks in kuwait.
Just stay up everything will be ok in the
long run.
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Jemini
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 May 2005 Posts: 58 Location: Australia
Posted: 06-07-05 04:13am
Hi mrswilson
all I can say is that no matter what men
are always going to look at porn and other
women. But think about this, he married
you. So there are things about you that
i'm sure he loves and appreciate, there
are things that you bring him that i'm
sure makes him happy, and also your the
one thats with him, not those silly pics
he looks at on the comp or girls on bikes.
I'm in a committed relationship myself,
not married, but we have trust that is one
of the biggest factors.
If you two have trust then what is there
to worry about? I know it may sound so
easy to be saying this, but I have gone
through the same thing, sometimes I still
do that my self esteam/confidence can hit
an all time low. But i'm on
antidepressants myself and going through
thearpy so i'm slowly getting there.
I too use to hate the fact that I had to
leave the house each day to go to work or
go socializing becaue I didn't want to be
looked at.
Maybe go and just pamper yourself like
going and getting a new hair style,
manicure whatever.
So just remember he married you.
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mrswilson
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2005 Posts: 20 Location: georgia
Posted: 06-07-05 06:33am
Thank you both of you it opened up my eyes
a little. He did marry me not anyone else
and those girls he could never have
they're really not real anyways. Thanks
guys. I love my husband dearly and know
he'd never hurt me and I do trust him.
And in kuwait i'm sure there's no hot
chicks there lol. Thanks again.
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Baby200920022000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Mississippi
