Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Orangeburg,S.C.
to Tell Or Not to Tell Posted: 06-06-05 17:48pm
For a while and especially recently I have
been thinking that I may be homosexual. I
want to tell my best friend but i'm afraid
because we are really close and have
kissed in the past I don't want our
relationship to change or for her to think
that I was into her in the past because
then it just wouldn't be the same my next
problem is that I have fallen in love with
her and don't know what I would do without
her in my life. I really want to tell her
but don't want to risk losing what we now
have. Please help!
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sarahk
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 108 Location: England
Posted: 06-23-05 10:23am
I personally would tell her that I was gay
however I wouldnt tell her that you are in
love with her. Take one step at a time.
If she knows your gay and she recipricates
your feelings then she will make it
known.
I'd definately tell her your gay, maybe go
out for a few drinks to get some dutch
courage then tell her. If she's a true
mate its not going to freak her out or
anything so go for it. See how she reacts
then maybe later on tell her your
feelings, but i'd only do this if you know
she likes you too, otherwise it may make
her feel a little awkward.
I'm straight, but ive had (well I dont
really know what you would call it but I
guess it would be sex!) with my best
friend, i'm not gay or bisexual, I dont
fancy women or want relationships with
them, it was just about booze and a
fumble! I'm not saying this is how your
mate feels, you just need to be aware that
just coz you have kissed, means she may
like women a bit, coz that isnt always the
case.
I hope this helps, good luck, let me know
what happens!
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janeysuz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2005 Posts: 79 Location: neworleans
