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sxcgirl_me
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Can Everybody Introduce Themselves to Me Please?
Posted: 06-07-05 03:06am
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Hey everybody,
i've been reading this forum a lot and
i've noticed that a lot of people are
close friends and really support each
other and I would love to get to know you
all!!!! :)
i'll tell you a bit about myself.
My name is kellie, i'm 19 from sydney,
australia and im 10 weeks pregnant
(and really scared cause my baby died with
my first pregnancy)
i have no kids so this is my first
pregnancy!!!!
Hope to hear from you soon!!!!!
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poohbear101
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Posted: 06-07-05 08:03am
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Hi kellie, i'm leeann from canada. I'm
not pregnant (although if you've read the
posts you may have come across mine and
have found that recently I thought I might
be) nor am I ttc, but its still fun to
come on here every once in awhile and see
whats happening.
Sorry to hear about your first baby and I
can only imagine how scared you must be
right now, but just keep thinking positive
and I wish you the best of luck. Even
though I have no experience when it comes
to being pg if you ever need to talk or
vent or whatever i'm usually around.
Good luck :)
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sxcgirl_me
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Can You Give Me An Opinion?
Posted: 06-08-05 02:21am
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Well ok heres the thing,
im 19 I love kids and i've always wanted a
baby.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out
for a year now but I know hes the one!
My boyfriend is 40 and he has never gotten
a girl pregnant so he's never been in this
situation.
Well naturally when I found out I was
pregnant I was thrilled, but my boyfriend
(paul) wanted me to have an abortion.
I refused to have an abortion and told him
if he hated it that much then I dont him
to have anything to do with it including
money!
Well I broke up with him but then 2 days
later he asked me to come back and said he
loves me and this isnt worth losing me
over and he accepts the fact that we're
having a baby.
Should I be worried bout him not really
wanting it?
And was I wrong for refusing to have an
abortion when he clearly didnt want it
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seksiHily
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Posted: 06-08-05 08:34am
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Im hilary, 19 I have no kids of my own.
Ive got a future step son that is about 5.
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 06-08-05 09:55am
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Hey, i'm kourtney. I have a 7 month old
little girl named kylie.
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seksiHily
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Posted: 06-08-05 09:57am
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And shes from alaska
shes an eskimo
sorry culdnt help myself kourt!
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-08-05 22:57pm
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Hehe thanks guys :p I bet its weird
having someone from australia, I tell ya
its bloody freezing here, but its gonna be
a long summer cause my bubs is due
january, (right in the middle of summer!)
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Re: Can You Give Me An Opinion?
Posted: 06-09-05 00:30am
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| sxcgirl_me
wrote: | | well ok heres the
thing,.... |
if he is 40 and wasn't
able to commit when he found out you were
pregnnat, then he is only around to have
sex with a young girl, nothing else.
I would be a touch suspicious of any
40-year-old having sex with a 19 year-old.
I suspect that he is not hanging out
with the 40-year-old women because they
don't by his lines. They are not doling
out sex without comittment, so he found
you instead. He was older than you are
now at the time when you were born.
Don't you find that a bit odd? Your
interests and maturity level must have
almost nothing in common between the two
of you. Normally, people hang out with
people more or less their own age because
of that. Are you going down to the grade
school to hang out with the students?
Perhaps that is a bit cynical, but it is a
gut-feeling I am having.
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-09-05 00:40am
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Yeah well its not like he doesnt hang out
with people his own age and his last
girlfriend was his age and they were going
out for 14 years,
and its not like he isn't committed cause
thats not the problem at all, i've been
living with him since we started going out
a year ago and when it comes to sex hell I
want it more than him so thats not the
problem.
He always says that because he knows I
cheated on my ex boyfriend that he's
scared im gonna do the same to him and hes
always scared im just gonna pack up and
leave him which I wouldnt do cause I love
him so much and he is like my best
friend.
How do I get him to realise that I love
him and only him and nothing is gonna
change that?
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2Boys4Us
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Posted: 06-09-05 23:23pm
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You can't get him to realize that -- if
he's worried about it now, it'll always be
in the back of his mind.
I, too, am a little concerned about the
age difference -- he was a legal adult
before you were born!! In any event, I
hope it doesn't hinder his fathering
abilities, because he will be much more
worn out than you much more
quickly.......... Is there a reason he's
never had any children before?? Did he
not want any, or was he simply never in a
good enough situation, what??
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-10-05 02:37am
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Well he was with his last girlfriend since
he was 25 and he said that they talked
about it but it never happened, plus it
was a long distance relationship that
doesn't help.
I'm the only girl he's ever lived with and
I have no doubt about him being a good
dad, even though he is 40 he is very fit
and goes to the gym a lot.
I think slowly he is starting to realise
i'm not gonna cheat on him or leave him so
I think everything will be ok.
Even if we do break up in the future I
know we will still love each other because
we are best friends!
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-12-05 05:08am
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Helllllloooooooooo?????????????
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 06-12-05 13:13pm
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| Quote: | and shes from
alaska
shes an eskimo
sorry culdnt help myself kourt!
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yes, that's me! Hehe. The essskimo! Did
I forget to say I lived in alaska? Opps.
Thank you hil <3
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Posted: 06-15-05 17:41pm
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I think regardless that this man is going
to be in your life forever because you are
going to have his child. I mean I am
not going to judge you on his age and
yours but I would say that he needs to act
like a man about. I would like to give
him the benfit of the doubt and say that
he probably had that inital reaction
because he was scared ( I think all men
are really little boys anyways) do not
feel bad about refusing to get an
abortion. It is your body and your
choice. F him if he makes you feel bad
about keeping your baby. Give it a
chance with him and remember it is never
to late to get out of the relationship if
it goes south.
Good luck!
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Posted: 06-15-05 17:45pm
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Oh yeah and I am vanessa, turn 19 next
month and married. No kids yet but would
love to have onne. Probably in like 3
years, hubby needs to grow up a bit.
Oh yeah and summer in january...Wierd.Lol
I am from so cal so I guess its pretty
much summer year round here, it's just
wierd to here that...My husbands from
oklahoma and it january it's below
freezing there
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-15-05 20:45pm
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Thanks vanessa :p
well I think hes getting excited about
it,
he turned around and said to me a couple
of weeks ago "oh babe I hope its mine
cause I dont want to get excited about it
if it ends up not being mine"
well its definately his so he has nothing
to worry about huh? :p
and he rubs my tummy a lot now :p
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Posted: 06-16-05 11:07am
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Congrats! I am glad to here
that..Sometimes it just takes some time
for it to sink in then it gets exciting.
I wish you well
vanessa
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Posted: 06-16-05 20:21pm
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Lol i'm due in 9 days and I don;t think
it's totally kicked in to my hubby's head
yet..Lol
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-16-05 22:10pm
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Yea well my boyfriend really annoys me
cause all I wanna do is talk about the
baby and buy stuff for it and he just
doesn't say a word about it,
except he tells me to eat properly and
stuff
and he whinges when I get tired easily and
stuff grrrr
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