vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
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the Pull Out Method
Posted: 06-07-05 13:59pm
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H I everyone. I am 19 years old, and
happily married. My husband and I are
not trying to get pregnant, neither are we
very careful not to. I would love to
have a baby. I pretty much raised my
neice so I know what I am getting myself
into and we have a house and are
finacially sound so if it happened i'd be
thrilled. Hubby on the other hand
doesn't mind waiting a few years but
always says if it happens then it would be
great. We just haven't offically started
trying yet. Anyways my question is how
likely am I to get pregnant with the pull
out method? I know its not a form of
birth control and that it is easy to get
pregnant with it but my question is how
easy? Say having sex at least once a day
with him just pulling out at the last
minute? Any response would be
appreciated
thanks
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
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Posted: 06-07-05 16:04pm
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I've been using the pull out method with
the guy i've been seeing for the last 6
months now and I haven't gotten pg,
although there have been a couple scares
once just recently but thats because he
didn't pull out :roll: there seems to be
quite a bit of debate when it comes to
this, some saying that its pretty high
risk while others just say that theres a
slight chance, but of course it is
possible to get pg using this method i'm
not sure what the percentage of a risk it
would be though. Good luck.
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
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Posted: 06-07-05 17:10pm
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Yeah my husband and I have been doing it
for like 6 months as well and we've also
had a couple of a scares but still never
pregnant. I mean my doctor tells me you
can get pregnant I just have never
personally heard of anyone actually
conceving.. Has anyone either gotton
pregnant or personally known someone who
has?
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
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Posted: 06-09-05 02:23am
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| vanessalouanne
wrote: | | yeah my husband and I have
been doing it for like 6 months as well
and we've also had a couple of a scares
but still never pregnant. I mean my
doctor tells me you can get pregnant I
just have never personally heard of anyone
actually conceving.. Has anyone either
gotton pregnant or personally known
someone who has? | no I havn't ever heard
of anyone eithier.. My b/f and I used
that method for about 2 years and I never
got pregnant. However I am now but we
didn't pull out lol.. Alot of people say
you can b/c of pre-cum
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-09-05 21:31pm
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My son is due in 2 weeks and I don;t know
if it was the pull out method or hubby
coming in me. Pull out's not foolproof
but I am allergic to latex and ended up
pregnant on the pill twice as a teen (i
miscarried both times) hubby and I had
been using the pull-out method on and off
for about 3 1/2yrs when I got pregnant.
I belong to another forum and 2 of the
girls there are preggo from the pull out
method (well one just had her baby last
week)
you can get pregnant from pre-come.
If you don't want to get pregnant don';t
use that method unless there is a medical
reason it's the only one. Ie:
allergies!!!! Lol
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 16:17pm
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tr> | pull out's not
foolproof but I am allergic to latex and
ended up pregnant on the pill twice as a
teen |
for being as well informed as you seem to
think you are, you apparently are unaware
of polyurethane condoms, which are made
for people who are allergic to latex.
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tr> | if you don't
want to get pregnant don';t use that
method unless there is a medical reason
it's the only one. Ie: allergies!!!!
Lol |
allergies are no excuse. Any
pharmacist, doctor, or intelligent person
would tell you to go for poly condoms.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-10-05 19:30pm
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| laurianna
wrote: | | Quote: |
tr> | pull out's not
foolproof but I am allergic to latex and
ended up pregnant on the pill twice as a
teen |
for being as well informed as you seem to
think you are, you apparently are unaware
of polyurethane condoms, which are made
for people who are allergic to latex.
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tr> | if you don't
want to get pregnant don';t use that
method unless there is a medical reason
it's the only one. Ie: allergies!!!!
Lol |
allergies are no excuse. Any
pharmacist, doctor, or intelligent person
would tell you to go for poly
condoms. |
you think I didn't look? I went to about
15 diff pharmacies and none of them
carried them. Maybe they are more common
in the states.
Also I am a grown woman with a husband,
great job and home, getting pregnant was
not a concern to me!
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a8e3187
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 40
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Posted: 06-10-05 20:07pm
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I say its highly unlikely if he hasn't cum
inside of you but, then again i'm 17 and
me and boyfriend have been using that
method and im soo stupid for it too
because im not ready for children nor do I
want one at this age. I hope eveyrthings
works out for you.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 20:59pm
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Hi vanessa, yes its me 3kizz. I hope you
are not sick of me yet. Anyway I got
pregnant with my vanessa with that method.
Its rare but it can happen.
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:32pm
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tr> you think I
didn't look? I went to about 15 diff
pharmacies and none of them carried them.
Maybe they are more common in the states.
Also I am a grown woman with a husband,
great job and home, getting pregnant was
not a concern to me!
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right, and you couldn't just order them
from the internet? You've been pregnant
three times and still won't go to
necessary means to get protection? Very
mature.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:36pm
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Ease up honey are you frustrated or
something. You are not to come on this
forum and put people down. We don't put
up with any attitude.
Lil-blaze should not be too much of a
concern for you. So back off.......
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:41pm
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Back off?
Am I supposed to find e-threats scary?
I've had this happen before. And, with
the exception of having accounts deleted
on various forums, there is no value to
threatening me. In general, people that
feel the need to threaten others over the
internet are undereducated, intimidated,
and are motivated by the need to feel
macho.
It's really quite lame.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:46pm
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You feel that I threatenin you that means
you must feel threatened. All that we
ask as a forum is that you don't bring
your drama to the floor.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:52pm
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| laurianna
wrote: | | Quote: |
tr> you think I
didn't look? I went to about 15 diff
pharmacies and none of them carried them.
Maybe they are more common in the
states.
Also I am a grown woman with a husband,
great job and home, getting pregnant was
not a concern to me!
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right, and you couldn't just order them
from the internet? You've been pregnant
three times and still won't go to
necessary means to get protection? Very
mature. |
lmao ya I really want to order condoms
from the net. Safe. And living in
canada, why would I want to pay us$ to
order shyt off the net. No thanx! As
a teen I was on the pill and actually the
first time getting pregnant I was on the
pill and using a condom. After that I
went on depo but after 2 yrs with no
period decided to get off it.
This time I was trying to get pregnant so
why should my husband and I use condoms?
My son is extremelly wanted.
Anyhoo is there a reason you are up my a$$
all the time? I hope they do ban your
ip addy from here you're nothing but a
cruel little child. Go do something.
It's a friday night. I have an excuse
as I could go into labour anyday so am
staying home. And I didn't see anyone
threatning you. And to take some of
your words "in general, people that feel
the need to be a b*tch over the internet
are undereducated, intimidated, and are
motivated by the need to feel macho oh and
they are not face to face.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 21:53pm
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For your personal info, iam a 35 year old
women, mother of two young daughters and
have my masters, and bachelors on criminal
justice.
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 22:11pm
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| 3kizz
wrote: | | you feel that I threatenin
you that means you must feel threatened.
All that we ask as a forum is that you
don't bring your drama to the
floor. |
no, I have a reading comprehension level
surpassing the third grade and know what
"back off" means.
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tr> | lmao ya I really
want to order condoms from the net.
Safe. |
it is, if you aren't a person. I'm sure
having unprotected sex is safer though,
right?
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tr> | and living in
canada, why would I want to pay us$ to
order shyt off the net. No thanx
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cheaper than child rearing? More pleasant
than sti treatment?
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tr> | as a teen I was
on the pill and actually the first time
getting pregnant I was on the pill and
using a condom. After that I went on depo
but after 2 yrs with no period decided to
get off it. |
really? I thought you were allergic to
condoms? And couldn't get
hypo-allergenic?
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tr> | this time I was
trying to get pregnant so why should my
husband and I use condoms? My son is
extremelly wanted.
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what was your excuse the first two
times?
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tr> | I hope they do
ban your ip addy from here you're nothing
but a cruel little child
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yeah, because changing an ip address is
soo hard!!!
It takes less than five seconds.
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tr> | go do
something. It's a friday night. I have
an excuse as I could go into labour anyday
so am staying home.
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so your excuse for being on the internet
is somehow more legitimate than mine?
Want to know why i'm online?
My little brother had jaw surgery less
than a week ago and has to be fed by
syringe every four hours. I'm babysitting
a kid I know for a few days as well. He's
asleep.
I'd love for you to explain why the fact
that you might be going into labor means
you have more of a right to be posting on
a board than I do. Hypocrisy? Hell
yes.
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tr> | in general,
people that feel the need to be a b*tch
over the internet are undereducated,
intimidated, and are motivated by the need
to feel macho |
and yet only one of the two of us has been
impregnated three times due to a complete
lack of knowledge? You can be ignorant,
just don't bring a lot of unwanted
children into the world because of it.
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tr> | for your
personal info, iam a 35 year old women,
mother of two young daughters and have my
masters, and bachelors on criminal
justice. |
i'm a 19-year-old without bags under my
eyes. Or a nearly useless degree.
Criminal justice? Masters? Didn't get
into law school?
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 22:24pm
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19 year old tight ass. Lil-blaze she must
be home on a friday night as an excuse to
baby sit and maybe even volunteered b/c
she is definately has no friends poor
thing with an attitude like that who the
hell would want to. You know little
laurianna with a mouth full of garbage
your giving me a headache. Enough
please......
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 22:37pm
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I love it when offended internet people
make themselves feel better by demonizing
me. They think that if they type
something out, i'll go away or
something.
According to people on the internet, I
am:
*sadistic
*middle-aged
*pre-teen
*belligerent
*angry
*male
*female in prison
*skanky gay woman
*the spawn of satan
*crazy conservative
*cowardly liberal
etc.
Unless the pretend life you make up for me
is creative, i'm not going to find it
amusing or motivating.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
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Posted: 06-10-05 22:55pm
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Tell me do you really have friends? B/c
unless you change your attitude or get it
ajusted you won't know what to do when you
meet your match face to face. I'm
finished with you sweetie. My 35 year old
ass is tired of you and your bull.......
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Laurianna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-10-05 23:00pm
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My 19-year-old ass doesn't feel the
necessity to make friends over the
internet. That's what the real world is
for.
Gee, do you want to be my friend? Maybe
we can have an e-picnic!
Gay.
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