Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 74 Location: dallas, tx.,
Irresponsible parents - need advice Posted: 06-07-05 16:27pm
I have aunt tht had a baby that she didn't
even want. When he was borned the
umboiral cord was around this thorat and
he lived. He is now 5 going to be 6
months old. And I always have him when I
get a chance. But everyone know she
doesn't want him still and her baby daddy
(supposly don't know who the dady is) is
hitting her and sometimes I think they
take it out on the baby :cry: . I don't
know what to do . If I could I would take
homw with me and raise him. But now we
think she is pregnant again and we know
she doesn't want another baby. Cause she
doesn't even take care of the baby.
Sometimes she ingornes the baby. And she
have a 5 yr old daughter. I just don't
know what to do anymore. I don't know
what to tell her either? Does anyone
havve some advice? Please help time is
running out?
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Gtownshorty
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Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 33 Location: Galveston Tx
Posted: 08-05-05 06:36am
If she didnt want the baby in the first
place why she have it.And she should be
doing that taking it out on him cause its
not his fault he was brought to this
world.
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PestimisticAngel
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Joined: 27 May 2008 Posts: 10 Location: Jamaica, New York United States of America
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Posted: 06-07-08 21:46pm
Gtownshorty
wrote:
If she didnt want the baby
in the first place why she have it.And she
should be doing that taking it out on him
cause its not his fault he was brought to
this world.
I completely agree. I
think that you or another relative (make
sure that the relative likes kids, has
enough patients, kind, understanding,
supportive, and is financially stable
enough, has a good environment no physical
fights and or fighting around the child,
no sexual stuff and things around, no
threatening just rasing the children
properly, even though there littl these
things affect them) either that or report
her to the a.c.s. or the police. They
being the acs people will take her
children away and put them into the
system, and they if they get to the point
where they are in foster care which some
children have very bad experiences from
you should check on them regularly, but I
dont know, if you really dont want to be a
part of it taking care of the children
then there wont be much that you can do. I
dont really recomend it the foster care, I
HIGHLY SUSGGEST that you a relative or
friend take the kids it would be for there
own good.
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eeyore46
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Posted: 06-07-08 22:48pm
If she doesn't want the children, have you
asked her if you can have them and raise
them to help her out. The children need
out of that environment. If you can't
raise them, then she should be reported.
They will keep it confidential about who
turned her in, but then maybe you could
raise them instead of them being in a
foster home once they approach her about
her behavio. I really do not know how
that works. Just do whatever you can to
get them out of that environment or you
will always regret it if something happens
to one of them. The unborn child, I don't
know how to respond to that. Also, you
can get financial help should you take the
two children and raise them. Will the 5
year old talk to a counselor at school
about how she is being treated? I worked
at a school and we always had authorities
there asking children about their home
life because someone had reported them as
unfit parents. A lot of times, the
children would open up and talk to them.
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