jessamyn
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Posted: 06-09-05 12:55pm
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How old are you?
You could just be over doing it and have a
cramping pain...
How long ago was your last period... Have
you missed a period... ? When did you go
to the gyno last?
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-09-05 13:23pm
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Easy... You made a very clear point. It
sounds like you are a great parent. You
just happen to be very mature for your age
I commend you on that.
As far as your posting. My husband and I
are well off and we do have college funds
set up for our girls. Thanks for your
concern. We started at 28 and now we are
35
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-09-05 13:25pm
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Easy... You made a very clear point. It
sounds like you are a great parent. You
just happen to be very mature for your age
I commend you on that.
As far as your posting. My husband and I
are well off and we do have college funds
set up for our girls. Thanks for your
concern. We started at 28 and now we are
35
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-09-05 13:45pm
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I very much appreciate you saying that.
You made a valid point as well. I think
sometimes people just need to agree to
disagree. I respect your opinion as I
would hope you respect mine.
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-09-05 14:17pm
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I can only give respect to someone that
can show responsibility and can give me a
fighting argument. You did.... So again
take care of yourself
and your family.
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-09-05 19:37pm
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Who are youtalking to sandralynn?
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-09-05 19:42pm
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Me coming on this forum was to get advise
and give. My intention was to give
attitude.
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a8e3187
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Posted: 06-10-05 00:24am
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I don't have any idea how you could want a
child at your age. I'm 17 years old and
i'm scared to death that I may be
pregnant. I can't even stand the thought
of it and yet i'm still having sex stupid
me. If thats what you want then I hope
everything works out but, just remember
that kids are hard. Just babysitting
sucks for me sometimes and I couldn't
handle kids and I should have thought of
that but, you get caught up in the moment
and yea you end up with your whole life in
front of your eyes. Just think about
it...
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3kizz
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Posted: 06-10-05 08:21am
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Sorry my last posting left out a few
words. I meant to say I didn't have the
intention to give attitude. Sorry again
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Isabel23
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Ok
Posted: 06-13-05 18:13pm
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I said I am a " teen " because I was 19...
I just turned 20 yesterday. We just
started a collage fund. We are not as ok
with money at this molment. Thats why we
decied to wait a year or 2... He is
owning his uncles business. And his uncle
is very well off. Thank you for all your
concerns and recomendations. I appreciate
it. Ill keep you all updaited on anything
thats going on. Well maybe ill put a post
up soon. Thanks : )
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-14-05 15:22pm
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First of all this issue was over to me a
long time ago, it was a disscussion that
3kiss and I were having and after this
post I hope that I will not have to defend
myself again. I was simply standing up
for my right to have a child. Like you
said sandra this forum is about giving
advise so why are you so to say" beating a
dead horse". If you dont want to talk
about this then stop. I already have.
Honestly I have already said everything
that I had to say. I was basically just
trying to give my support to thoes younger
mothers you are responsible and get
attacked for wanting a child.
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WanaBaMom
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Location: Tampa, Florida
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Posted: 06-14-05 19:51pm
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Wow, I have missed a lot. It just angers
me when younger couples are trying to
coneive and have questions about it, they
don't get their questions answered, they
are preached to. If we want your advice
on how to not have a baby and how hard it
is to raise a child, and be financially
stable then we will ask for it, and if you
disagree with our ways, please don't
comment and look down upon us, as that
will only result in an arguement.
Thanks....
P.S way to go vanessa!!!
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gav0328
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Posted: 06-15-05 15:34pm
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Girls, there's no need to fight over age.
They're just numbers! In reality, a
person matures through how he/she was
brought up and the kind of household
he/she has. Some people mature at an
early age and learn how to be responsible
right away and make the right decisions.
Some people at a latter age still has to
learn about a lot of stuff. It's just a
matter of different upbringing. The moral
lesson here is if you want to have
children someday, try to make good
examples to them, show them good morals
and raise them in a good environment and
you're gonna be okay. In general, just
don't jump into hot water if you don't
know if it's boiling.
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Isabel23
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Wow
Posted: 06-16-05 20:28pm
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Laura21
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Location: Yokota, Japan
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Posted: 06-18-05 18:09pm
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Im only 20 years old and im pregnant
(married) but I really wish I could of
waited, but I couldnt..I have polycystic
ovarian syndrome and the doctor told if I
wanted children I had to start now bc the
longer I waited the harder and harder it
would be..Ill be 21 in two days and im
still a kid! I still want to go out and
have fun and drink with my friends, get up
and leave when I feel like it..But I have
to grow up faster...
If you dont have to then dont..Have a
couple of years of just you and your
husband.. I only got 9 mths with mine and
boom we got pregnant..Its nice to just be
the only ones in the house and do whatever
you want when you want..So think really
hard...
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sxcgirl_me
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Joined: 17 May 2005
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Location: Sydney - Australia
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Posted: 06-19-05 22:57pm
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You know you all talk about having so much
money to help your children, but....
Do you also have the love, support and
time for your children?
I think that is a really great question.
I watched my sister raise my neice as a
single parent and she had to work and had
hardly any time for her which wasnt too
great.
Im 12 weeks pregnant and staying at home
on welfare when my baby is born while my
boyfriend works,
i would rather spend all my time with my
child so I can teach her things and take
her out into the world.
I think tat having the time and love for
your child is just as important as money!
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-19-05 23:02pm
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God we think its hard having children
now?
Imagine how hard it is for the women in
africa who are having so many children
when they're so sick,
i really think we have to count our
blessings for what we have.
Dont you think?
By the way im 19 :) sorry
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sunshinedust1805
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: Colorado
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Yes!
Posted: 06-20-05 00:35am
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I totally agree with you! It would be so
scary to do what they do.....We should
count our blessing eveyday!
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