Hey girls I cannot stay in this house much
longer im totally spazzing out!!! Im soo
tired of my family and all their
negativity!!!! Its driving me insane!!!
Im soo ready to pick my caca up and
leave!!!! I heard when u are 17 u can
leave as long as u have a safe enviroment
to go to idk tho!!! Im soo tired of this
place!! I can only take soo muhc!!!!
Jen
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-12-03 19:24pm
Its ok. Have some ice cream! Lol no but
I mean just breathe. Youll be fine. I
know how it is with negativity. My sister
is the queen of that. But just ignore it.
You only have so much longer. If you
want to pick your *things* up and leave,
then you should. You should not have to
be stressed like that. If you have a
place you can go to, why dont you? Have
you been able to talk to your guy yet? Im
sorry your going through this. You should
read a good book. Reading lets you escape
all of your problems and expands your
imagination. I can mail you a book! Lol
but for now, ignore them and dont let them
get to you. Its what they want. For you
to get irritated like that. But if you
brush it off and dont let it get to you,
you win. Not them. You need a hug! And
a belly rub for your baby!!!
Sweetie,
i am so sorry things are so bad for you.
I really wish I could help you out. Do
you have a friend you could go stay a few
days with? Or maybe your guy or
something? Awww sweetie, we are all here
for you ok.
Love,
chanda
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-12-03 19:55pm
I wish u girls lived where I lived things
would be soo much easier....I was talking
to my friend meggan today and she said she
wouldnt care if I went and stayed w/ her
for awhile she goes to the same school as
me so its not like that would be a
problem...I just dont know when I could do
it...Yah I have talked to raven he got a
new cell things are tense w/ us tho b/c I
told him what everyone at school keeps
pulling like they are all pulling me in a
million directions some are saying how do
u know hes not going to leave ya and
others are saying other caca and driving
me absolutely insane not to mention my
home life...I have all this stress in my
life and its not good for me or my
baby....Thanks for the book suggestion I
dont have a book they are all packed away
still and im not sure where at and the
book the doctor gave me I have read 3
times already thats just getting old im
going crazy I swear.....Thats just the
thing thats what I have been doing just
blowing it off but I can only handle so
much ya know? Idk!! Thanks girls!!
Jen
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casey rachelle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Erie, MI
Jen, Posted: 11-12-03 20:08pm
Yeah you can leave when you're 17. But if
I were you I would stick it out as long as
I could. Ya never know things could get
better? Maybe? But if you absolutely
can't then I jus hope that you make the
right decision on where to go so that
you're safe and everything!
Good luck~
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-12-03 20:10pm
My friend meggans is really safe I know
that for a fact....I know but im probably
only go for a lil bit just to relieve some
of this stress and relax ya know?? Well
thanks for helping and being concern
sweetie!Much love and god bless!!!
Jen
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casey rachelle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Erie, MI
You're Welcome, Posted: 11-13-03 10:27am
Anytime hun! Good luck keep us posted!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 11-13-03 11:04am
Gud luck jen-it'll prmbably do u a lot of
good 2 get away from it all 4 a few days
&have times 2 sort things out in ur
head.
Love liz x
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-13-03 11:50am
Well sweetie, I dont know what to tell
you. I can say that I have been where you
are a hundred times, and it finally came
to the point where I couldnt take it but I
would go back and it would still be the
same when I returned. So finally I really
met my melting point and I felt that I had
to do something. So I talked to my
boyfriends mom but she couldnt take me and
the state stepped in, then the said either
a foster home or move here with my
grandma, and well look at me now... I am
here with my grandma, with my boyfriend,
and with my son. This has been the best
thing that has ever happened to me. I
lived here before and I messed up but they
were willing to accept me back and I am
doing much better. My son is everything
to me, he saved my life!! I sure hoppe
that things get better sweetie, I am here
for you!!
