Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
Posted: 07-23-05 02:41am
vanessalouanne
wrote:
vanessalouanne
wrote:
just out of curiosity why
did you get married so young
broadcastedlife? I mean I was married
at 18 so I am not trying to judge, im just
curious.
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lol its okay. Believe me your not the
first person to ask me this, by far.
Michael and I had been dating since
december 7th 2002, we decided to get
married 2 years and a month later jan.
7th, 2005.
I originally planned on getting married
when I was 18. We we're going to wait
untill then. Michael and I had been
discussing career options for a while.
Now since he was creeping up on 21 in
november 2004, we deiced on what he wanted
to do. He wanted to make me happy, he
wanted to takecare of me. We both decided
that going active duty would be a great
career. Excellet benifits and such. ( he
was in the national guard. Has been sine
he was 17.) michael and I have been
through more thhings than I can even begin
to touch on. I can honestly say we love
each other. Michael moved into my house,
(my mother, my younger brother, & i)
in about augest of 2003. After he had
complete basic training and ait. My mom
was stressed on financial problems. She
was working 2 jobs full time while I
stayed home and took take of the house and
my borther, (i.E. Dishes, laundry,
cooking meals, helping with
homeowrk,cleaning, getting him to bed.)
michael brought his income in to help. My
mom has always loved michael. Its just
one of those things I guess. So we moved
out wedding date up a few years partly
because we we'e just sick of waiting, and
if you took an active duty job, he'd be
shipped somewhere. We didn't know it was
over seas at first, but he'd just be moved
somewhere period. We knew what that would
do oto your relationship and what not.
Also, hewas taking care of me, supporting
me money wise, transportation wise, pretty
much everything wise. If he joined, what
would be the point in getting single
soilder income if he still had to take
care of me? We had also been talking
about how much we wanted a child. I know
i'm young for thining like that, but I am
the happiest person in the world right now
to know that I got married, then I got
pregnant, and I am financialy stable for a
child, and we're thrilled about it. So we
did the big I do's. And he left in feb.
For germany, and I followed in march.
March 22nd 2005. Hope that clears
something up? Lol
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 07-23-05 03:02am
So ur just in germany not from germany?
Ahhh ok I thought u were from there. Ur
so lucky! If only every relationship
could work out like that. Sounds to me
like u have the fairy tale life :)
congrats.
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broadcastedlife
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Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
Posted: 07-23-05 03:04am
justacanadiangirl
wrote:
so ur just in germany not
from germany? Ahhh ok I thought u were
from there. Ur so lucky! If only every
relationship could work out like that.
Sounds to me like u have the fairy tale
life :)
congrats.
i'm working on it, thanks : ).
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-25-05 15:48pm
Congrats! I was just curious. Your
hubby sounds like a great guy!
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 07-25-05 15:50pm
vanessalouanne
wrote:
congrats! I was just
curious. Your hubby sounds like a great
guy!
he is :d. I talk to him online, and he
tells me how sorry he is for not being
here to do the work around the house and
give me massages and such. I love him so
much <3
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-25-05 15:53pm
Its really tough when they are away but it
is the best feeling in the world when they
come back, there is absolutley nothing
like it. As far as if he goes into iraq
make sure you have your email account set
up, because that is what kept me going
with my hubby
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-25-05 15:59pm
Do you live on base?
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 07-25-05 16:00pm
vanessalouanne
wrote:
do you live on
base?
for now, yes.
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 07-25-05 16:02pm
vanessalouanne
wrote:
its really tough when they
are away but it is the best feeling in the
world when they come back, there is
absolutley nothing like it. As far as
if he goes into iraq make sure you have
your email account set up, because that is
what kept me going with my
hubby
yeah, we talk on yim everyday. Things
have gotten aot betterthere. We are both
active internet users.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-25-05 16:17pm
Living on base can be really good and also
can be really bad. Try not to get
involved in the gossip. Its worst then
high school in base housing. But your
neighbors are going through the same
things that you are and can be really
helpful to you, expecially when the baby
comes along. Just a few words of advise.
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Xlil ne neX05
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Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 73 Location: fontana, ca
Posted: 07-25-05 21:30pm
I am 19 and had my daughter at 19 :)
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Xlil ne neX05
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Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 73 Location: fontana, ca
Posted: 07-25-05 21:32pm
I am 19 and had my daughter at 19 :)
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deathlykisses
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Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 13 Location: alabama
Posted: 07-27-05 22:45pm
Im 20 femele, and im still a virgin
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lil_audi
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Joined: 28 Jul 2005 Posts: 1 Location: some were in mi
Im Posted: 07-28-05 12:25pm
I'm 16 gonig to be 17 in 2-9-06. But the
bad thhing is when I ws 15 I had 3 scares
of being pg. But now I wish I was cause
the guy I was with was my everything. The
reason why we are not together is cause he
is in jail now.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-28-05 17:26pm
The guy doesnt exactly sounds like a
winner... I wouldnt be to excited to have
his offspring if I were you. Best to
wait until your married. *just my
opinion*
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BuCkWhEaT
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Ontario
19 Posted: 07-29-05 16:27pm
Hi, in case anybody cares (lol) im 19, I
found out I am pregnant 2 days before my
19th birthday. Lol
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 07-29-05 18:12pm
Congrats :)
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Happiness03
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Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Posted: 07-31-05 11:35am
:) I am 20 and have no children, but a
fiance' does that count?! :)
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prittichick
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Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 5 Location: philippines
Hey There Im New Here... Posted: 08-01-05 01:52am
Im 16 and im 6weeks preggy...
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broadcastedlife
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Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
Posted: 08-01-05 12:46pm
happiness03
wrote:
:) I am 20 and have no
children, but a fiance' does that count?!
:)
well your in this forum, so your thinking
about being preg. At least! Lol
