How Old Is Everyone?

I was efin raped...Okay...And we don't have enough money for an abortion or to give it up for adoption...So excuse me, its not my fault I was raped, its not my fault I got pregnant. I didn't ask for any of it...

Exactly.. Oh and congrats about the baby.. My sister is in a simmilar situation, her husband is in the navy and she is due in october, he gets back in november. Luckily my husband gets out soon. How do you like germany?

Im sorry sweetheart, be strong and youll get through this.

Think of it this way by the time he gets back the baby will hopefully be sleeping better and you can lose the baby weight so you'll be a hot momma....It's tough though do you have anyone who is going to come out and help?? Im lucky my sister is in hawaii so I have to go out there for two weeks when the baby is born...I know tough for me right lol

You know what I would suggest... Have you ever seen thoes at home fitness tapes? Well carmen electra has a striptease one that looks like itd be fun and useful( im sure you husband would appreciate it :wink: ) as for groceries and not being able to drive..Well that sucks! Talk to someone on base about that ..Im sure there has to be some kind of program. Are you friends with any other wives? Maybe they can help out. I dont live on base but my sister does and she is really close with her neighbors and they really help each other out when it comes to stuff like that.

Well thats cool.. My brother is an officer in the army (i have a huge military family...Made it hard to date when I was in high school..Lol) being an officers wife isnt a bad life. What rank is he right now? Being enlisted and then becoming an officer is always good because thoes are the guys who get the most respect

All the officers wives in my husbands company are always wearing their prada shoes and chanel suits. ..Must be rough!

What, I can't voice my opinion? I thought this was a public forum.



And I do treat people with respect, but they have to earn it first. That's something I learned in the military. I'm only an problem to these fool teenages and all these brainwashed women, i'm actually a nice person in real life and i'm not anywhere as rude as I am here.


Tell me why I should respect a pregnant teenager, who so far has done nothing but sit here and feel sorry for herself, waste state resources and people's tax money? (not just talking about this, i'm talking about this whole forum) is it because it's not their fault? Is it because I should feel sorry for them? Is it because having a baby is a beautiful and natural thing, even if they are too young?


I think the minium age for having a kid should be 18, otherwise I think a forced abortion is in order. But even then at 18 you must be completely self-reliant and ready to take on the task of caring for another human being.


Some of these girls can barely take care of themselves, and they think having a kid is their right and not a privilege. Please don't bring another mouth to feed in the world unless you are really prepared to handle the immense responsibility of caring for a child.



And if you were raped, then it's not your fault and I can understand that. But if you really want a fatherless child to care for on your own, then go ahead. Otherwise, an abortion is the best option, because hannah, I think you have no idea for what you're in for. I've heard stories of women who were raped, got pregnant and decided to keep the baby because they thought it would be a good idea. Later on, I hear that these women can't even look at the kid because it reminds them of the rape, that horrible experience that everytime you look at your kid you will know that it was ill-conceived and not intentional.


Even if you're too broke to afford an abortion, you can get help from medicare, or you can get the home abortion kit. Not to be rude, but if you can't even pay for something like abortion or adoption fees, then how do you expect to pay for the child itself? Sometimes, you have to spend money to save money, an abortion might be a $1,000 or whatever, but just think about all the money you're saving by not having to care for another person. Back in 1994, a first child was calculated to cost $3,000 to $13,000 in the first year alone. Now jump forward 11 years, with the economy in the shape it is, how much do you think this baby is going to cost? Do you think it's going to be cheaper than an abortion?

There is always adoption. As far as respecting teenage girls and pregnant women..Im not even asking you to do that, you right you have no reason to respect them but you also have no reason not to. These women have done nothing to you.. Now maybe if you were a women and had experianced any of these things that these women are talking about then we could value your opinion but you havent, you dont know what it feels like to have a child in you, you dont know what it feels like to have maturnal instincts. As for all these women who say after they were raped they could bare to look at their child? Wow, see the women I know who have gone through with their pregnancy see their child as a gift from god. Because yes it is a horrible thing to have to go through but the end result doesnt always have to be a bad thing. Children are gifts not a problem we should just take care of. If a women choses to have an abortion then that is h.E.R choice but until you grow a uterus I suggest you keep your opinion to yourself

Meybe this woman who couldnt look at her child was your mother? Maybe thats why you are so bitter

Um ok ur seriously the biggest fool ive ever met. The whole subject had already changed... Cant you see that nobody even cares about what you have to say anymore? Get over yourself

Hello shes just trying to get the idea into ur big head! She doesnt need to come up with something "clever" to say to you shes obviously more mature than you are! Nobody cares if you respect us "teenage health forum" no1 even asked you to just stop posting here if all you're gonna do is be rude because like I said 1500 posts before ((**nobody cares about your opinion**))