im on the depo provera. When I started
it, my doctor told me that after coming
off of the injection, it would take up to
maybe a year until I could get pregnant.
Im in a bad situation at the moment, as I
missed my injection by a week. In the
week that I missed the jab, I had
unprotected sex. Even though I remember
being told that it could take a year to
get pregnant, my doc told me to come back
in 3 weeks to do a pregnancy test :? Im
so messed up at the moment. Ive spoken to
my boyfriend about it, and even though he
loves me I know he wont be able to cope if
I am pregnant, and neither would i. Im
only 17 and I wouldnt be able to live. I
wouldnt want to. Also, to make things
worse, me and my boyfriend are going
through a hard time at the moment, and I
dont feel as if he even wants me around
anymore... He even makes it obvious by
saying "just finish me and you'll be out
of my life" it rips me apart to hear the
things he says to me like that :cry: I
just feel so low. Its making me worry
more too because ive had loads of pain in
my stomach for weeks. Even at night I
cant sleep because the pain in my stomach
is so bad. My boyfriend just ignores it
and leaves me to fade in the background...
I love him so much but it hurts so much
to be put down and ignored.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 06-09-05 18:43pm
First off hun dont be so selfish to say
you wouldnt be able to live if you got
pregnant just because you were 17...
There are so many options for you. I mean
yeah if you were to get an abortion then
thats that (no fighting on this subject
people) but if you didnt and you chose to
keep the baby yeah it would be a fight but
a child isnt worth *not living over or not
being able to cope with* your having sex
you need to grow up and realize that with
sex comes the possibilty of pregnancy with
or without protection. I got pregnant on
a condom and bc... Yeah fertile but I
love my son... Parenthood may not be for
you but know you have to atelast expect
it.
Wait the 3 weeks and test... You have to
of had unprotected atleast once before...
You didnt freak out like this did you?
Test then come back
we'll help you if you need it...
There are so many options now adays just
know that!
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* cheryl *
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 38
True True Posted: 06-10-05 10:57am
Yeah I understand what you mean with the
part where I said I would'nt wanna live, I
didnt mean that. When I wrote that post I
was so mixed up and just wanted to get it
out, so I didnt mean that. First of all,
thanks for replying, I just needed to talk
to someone. My boyfriend and I are
talking things over and trying to work
things out.
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