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smith8500

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Wierd Sex Question
Posted: 11-12-03 22:57pm

Ok, I hate to be asking this but I have a question. My boyfriend and I have sex and it's great and everything..... His only complaint is that I am always too wet. Any advice? Do any of you have this problem? Can it be stopped?
Thanks. Embarassed
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smith8500

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Posted: 11-13-03 08:00am

23 views and no replies???? Confused
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understood

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to Wet
Posted: 11-13-03 10:10am

Darling no such thing as to wet.,,,the wetter the better,,,,,
your wettness my be increasing by you husbands love juices from his member
i get hornier the wetter my girl gets ,,nothing to worry about,,,
i would rather be in a wet hole than a dry one,,dry ones hurt till the love juices flow,,,

dont' worry be happy
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illusionsmamma

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Posted: 11-13-03 12:37pm

Aren't you right the wetter the better!!!
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illusionsmamma

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Posted: 11-13-03 12:37pm

Aren't you right the wetter the better!!!
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-13-03 12:41pm

I didnt see your post til now chanda, sorry. Being wet is nothing bad. Tell him its either that or your too dry! Which would make it unconfortable. Ive never heard of that complaint though! Tell him its not your fault! Evey women is wet!
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niceguy

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Posted: 11-13-03 13:54pm

This is not a wierd question. Being too wet can be bad also. There is not enough friction and less fun when its too wet. I have a suggestion. Keep a dry washcloth and get your guy to wipe his member a few times during intercourse. This should reduce the wetness somewhat.
Good luck to you.....
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-13-03 14:01pm

Oh good idea. I was thinking on this. I remember me and my friend william were talking and he said his girl used to get really wet and it felt like she was really loose and he couldnt enjoy it because it wasnt tight on his...Piece down there. I agree with nice guy, just wipe off extra wetness.
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understood

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Posted: 11-14-03 09:58am

Okay,,so you want to dry it up? How impersonal ,,get a cloth and dry it,,no wrong...Last thing you want while doing the do,,,is to stop get a cloth and dry yourself,,,,what I do is lay on my back while the girl is riding me have her slide of it,,and rub her wet spot up and down my stomach,while I guide her by holding on to her hips,,,slide her up and down ,,,,having her rub all over me,,,and then go back down......Have to stop ,,,,wow,,,,anyway there are other nicier ways to dry it,,be creative guys,,,,
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niceguy

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Posted: 11-14-03 15:24pm

Hey understood, while your technique might make her feel reaaaaallll good
as she rubs those lips on your hairy tummy, its not gonna take care of the wetness problem. Unless she is oozing and dripping loads of juices, most of the wetness is insder of her.
By wiping yourself off, you make sure she has to produce that much more lubrication that got wiped off. Usually women only produce a set amount of lubrication in one love making session.

Btw, if you think wiping on a handcloth is too impersonal, try wiping it with her undies Smile
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-14-03 15:35pm

Im with niceguy, again. While that might turn you on. I would not want to rub all over on jose. Im fine with wiping it off. Not that I have to wipe. But if I did, it just get his boxers and do it.
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understood

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Posted: 11-17-03 11:30am

Right , anyway just ideas,,,by the way don't have hairy stomach or chest,,,just natural tan skin,,,,and musles...
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vnloca

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Never 2 Wet
Posted: 11-29-03 04:34am

Two words: he's crazy
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saturn24

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Posted: 11-30-03 06:17am

Wow, I was starting to get concerned while I was reading this because everyone was saying that there is no such thing as too wet!! I am a girl and I will tell you what, there is. The last couple of replies about said it. Not to get too personal on ya, but it is also true that the "smaller" the guy is, the more this can be a problem. The only way to solve it is to have some way to wipe when this happens. Because lets face it, when it is extremely wet you can hardly feel it and what fun is that!
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niceguy

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Posted: 11-30-03 13:23pm

Only a horse would'nt get effected by excessive wetness! Heh heh
but you are right saturn24, I agree with everything you said. I find this problem to occur with my wife right around the time of ovulation. About a week after the period, she is like a river but I never really wipe anything off, just go with the flow..
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saturn24

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Posted: 11-30-03 19:26pm

I didn't mean that big guys aren't affected by this problem, and if you have this problem you aren't big enough! I think that may be how it sounded. But all that I meant was, the bigger you are, the less of a problem it is in most cases. Or atleast in my case, I guess. Nothing against smaller guys!! Just make sure you have something available to wipe!! Sorry for the misunderstanding!
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carvytaph

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Posted: 12-03-03 19:49pm

Chanda,

do you use a condom? Is it lubricated? If you use a condom that's lubbed, try getting non-lubricated. Obviously you don't need it. I know what it's like to be "too wet". You can be too wet for total enjoyment, but not too wet to be unnatural. Use the friendly advice from everyone on this post.


Best wishes!

Carvytaph
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smith8500

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Posted: 12-11-03 11:14am

Thanks everyone. You all helped a little! I worked on it the other night.... And lets just say the night went better.....
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tanji

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My Boyfriend Says the Same About Me
Posted: 01-05-04 02:05am

My boyfriend says the same about me. He says it doesn't have as much feeling because it is so wet. That's because there is not enough friction there. And like the others said, if he's big thats not really a problem cause there's stilll plenty of friction but if he is small, he doesn't get as much sensation. I've never tried to do anything to correct it with me but I guess it would help to have something handy to wipe off with every now and then if it would make it better for him. Do it while you're changing positions or something. It'll only take about 2 seconds....No big deal. Be glad you're not dry then he'd have to complain about using a lubricant.
You go girl!!!
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E Jayne

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Re: Wierd Sex Question
Posted: 01-08-04 17:06pm

Your partner should see this as a compliment just imagine how embarasing it would be if u was dry it would be obvious he was not turning u on

e jayne
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