I am 20 years old and I have no desire to
have sex with my husband of almost 2
years! I use to love sex and oral sex!!
But now i'm lucky to give it to him 2-3
times a month!! We have no kids but we
want them! Its even causing drama in our
everyday life!!! But I just don't want to
do it!!He isn't as big as I would like him
to be!! But it use not matter! We use to
have sex 3-4 times a day!!! And it was
great! But now it sucks! I get to where
we have sex and I think to myself "how
much longer then, I ask him!" I roll my
eyes when its dark and he can't see me! I
love him with all my heart and soul, we
even want to plan on kids soon! I have no
need for sex with him much less anyone
else!What do I need to do! I want to have
a more spicy'er sex life but it just don't
happen!! Please help young love in
distress!!!
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lil mama3
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2005 Posts: 68 Location: houston
Posted: 06-09-05 22:33pm
Have u try talking to him about it, maybe
he dosent stimulate u to haveing sex, u
know a women needs to be kiss, touched
etc.) so she can have desiere in having
sex. Now if it's not that maybe ur
hormons are not right sometimes that can
cause not to have desire for sex......
Good luck :wink:
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IAmAnonymous
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jun 2005 Posts: 29
Posted: 06-09-05 23:15pm
Tip of advice, less explanation marks.
Try a full-stop next time.
I guess it's all about the position. Do
you keep to the same position? Isn't
doggystyle good for not-so-well endowed
men?
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miranda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Florida
More From the Bedroom Posted: 06-10-05 10:16am
For me doggy style sucks because he seems
to always pop out. He is only about
umm... 4-5in. Long and med. Round! I
also need to know if it is okay to think
about past flings all the time? Is it?I
love him alot! But I keep thinking about
how much better sex was before. Our lives
would be perfect, if only we had it better
in the bedroom. I did have a proublem
with "myself" and the doctor put me on
birth control to make me reg. Again. It
has worked and i've been on it for almost
5 months. I thought that when every thing
got "right" with me, it'd be better for
him.
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 06-10-05 23:58pm
Maybe you should have him try some well
don't know what its called but stuff to
make the man hood bigger! Hehe. Also ive
seen on sex toy websites penis extenstions
that a man can put over his penis to
extend it! Maybe that might just make you
tick : )
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vanessalouanne
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Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2269 Location: ,
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Posted: 06-13-05 12:00pm
Doggystyle is my favortie. Maybe watch
porn and use oils.. Have him talk dirty
to you that always works for me. Also (
I know I sound horrible kinky) talk about
your most dirty sexual desires and play em
out! As for doggy style being for thoes
not so well endowed I totally do not think
thats true. My husband is 9inches and
has is 5inches around .. ( ok we were
bored and measured) if anything we have
to be careful it doesn't hit my uterus
cause that hurts like a health forum!
Good luck and if all else fails imagine
your having sex with brad pitt!
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Unhappy and unsure
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2005 Posts: 20
Posted: 06-13-05 13:28pm
How does your husband feel about all of
this? Has he tried to put you in the mood
more often?
Im sort of going thru the same thing with
my live in bf. We used to have sex a lot
(i used to keep track for fun and it was
50-60 times a month) and now he's lucky to
get laid once every 2 months.
My problem has just not been getting
turned on and feeling desired. I have low
self esteem and love attention men give
me, but for some reason I cringe when my
bf tries to touch me. I think I miss the
adventure and intensity of the passion and
lust two ppl can have when they first
become intimate (we've been together a lil
over 9 years now).
Maybe if he showered you with affection
more and tried to do things that you find
erotic (whether it be watching porn to
sensual massage) you would be turned on
more?
Its maybe worth a shot.
Good luck =)
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