Needing Your Expert Advice Posted: 06-10-05 07:06am
Hey there
:d
i really need you advice, if my period is
late I always start thinking i'm pregnant
and I never am, and get really
disappointed, but this time its
different.
My period is due in about 4 days, but it
never comes on the date its supposed to,
always 2/3 days before or after, and this
time i'm feeling really strange, my lower
back is killing me, my boobs are so sore
at night I can't lay on my front as its so
uncomfortable, i've got some cramps, but
they don't seem the same as usual, these
things usual happen around the time of my
period but never this much.
Am trying not to over react as everytime
something like this happens I always get
let down because al the tests i've down in
the past have been negative, but its quite
hard not to think about it as I feel so
strange.
I've also found some pinky/brown really
light discharge type stuff when i've gone
to bathroom, normally this means my
periods are about to start but this
spotting has been going on for 3 days now
and theres nothing.
Only today I read about the implantation
bleeding and needless to say i'm getting
more obsessed that i'm pregnant
should I do a test now? Whats your
thoughts? :? :d
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seksiHily
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: MN
Posted: 06-10-05 07:53am
I'd wait until you miss your period, just
in case.
Ps. Im no expert.
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annarella
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Posts: 117 Location: italy
Mmm Posted: 06-11-05 04:01am
Hiya, I couldn't resist doing a test and
like always it came out negative.
And this morning that little bit of
spotting I had was a little bit heavier
althougth still off colour, I thought it
was my period but now its stopped again, I
got a pack of 2 tests, so I think I will
wait till my period date has past.
This is really bugging me coz if i'm not
pregnant, whats wrong?, my periods have
always been a bit irregular but i've never
had spotting for what is 4 days now and
nothings happened :?
I haven't told anyone about this, even my
husband doesn't know, coz he'll say i'm
just over reacting (which I could be) but
i've never felt these pms symptoms so
strong before, and yesterday I felt nausea
all day
anyway i'll wait a see, if anyones got any
advice i'd really appreciate it, as like I
said before i've only told u gals on here
:)
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Sadler1021
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2004 Posts: 91 Location: Texas
Posted: 06-11-05 16:19pm
Symptoms rarely show up really strong like
that until your are further along. You
may be pregnant but at the same time you
may just be stressing yourself out which
is causing your period to be different.
When I was trying to get pregnant I was so
desperate to and it seemed like every
month I noticed so called "symptoms" and
peed on a stick only for it to result in a
negative and then finally start after much
disappointment. I know how you feel
really wanting to be pregnant, it will
happen for you it just takes time. Try to
wait a few days past your missed period
though I know its hard to do. I tried for
4 years to get pregnant and the month that
I succeeded in it was the month I was on a
"break". Good luck when you do take the
test I hope you get what you want.
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annarella
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Posts: 117 Location: italy
Posted: 06-12-05 04:35am
I know that the symptoms seem really
strong so early, i'm telling myself this
all the time, just trying to ignore them,
get on with it etc... But last night for
example, I was out with friends like every
sat night, and I couldn't do anything, u
know that feeling in your stomach when ur
nervous, u get butterflys etc, well that
feeling along with constant back ache,
made it absolutly impossible to ignore..
:?
My spotting is just the same, hasn't
increased, and this has been like this
since monday :? , am willing to accept
that I might not be pregnant, means I can
have a fun summer, without worries etc,
but i'm worried that if i'm not then what
the hell is going on with my body, its a
really bad trick my bodys playing on me at
the moment hehe.
I did another test this morning, as I
recalculated my period and realised that
its not that my period is coming 3 days
early every month but that i've got a 29
day cycle, silly me, so today should have
arrived, needless to say it was neg, now
i'm just gonna wait, nothing more I can do
at this time, maybe I should have waited
before, but like I said, the stomach and
back ache is just impossible to ignore, so
curiosity got the better of me hehe.
Well think i've said enough for now, I
really appreciate ur reply!!!
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 06-12-05 06:07am
If you were pregnant you wouldnt be
showing symptoms this fast. Wait it out
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annarella
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Posts: 117 Location: italy
All For Nothing!! Posted: 06-12-05 06:32am
Thanx a bunch gals, ur right, I should
have waited longer. Looks like my period
has come, never experience all this
spotting and back ache etc etc for a
period before hehe, bloody things,
wouldn't life be much easier without
them!! :d
ah well, thanx for ur patience,
sending out loads of baby dust and luck
all the way from italy!!!!!!
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