Vibrator Damage... Loss of Feeling, Non Pms Bleeding Posted: 06-10-05 21:13pm
My girlfriend never seemed interested or
tempted to have sex with me in our
history... And when I asked, she said she
had used a vibrator when she was younger,
and now she cant feel anything in her
vaginal area... She says that the week
after she used it last, she couldnt even
feel when she had to go to the bathroom.
Sometimes she says she is in pain when
shes not on her period, and a little while
after it happened she said it would even
bleed sometimes. Its been this way for
quite a while, and I was wondering...
Will the feeling of pleasure ever return
to her? What can we do to achieve sexual
satisfaction? She still discharges
sometimes when she is in a sexually
arousing situation... Such as when we're
making out, or lying together... But she
doesnt feel anything anymore. She says
she cant experience an orgasm anymore, and
has no sexual appetite. I really hope
that in our future we will be able to have
sex, and it be enjoyable for us both...
But I need to know if this damage is
permanent, and if its possible to reverse
the damage...
Thank you
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 06-10-05 23:55pm
She must have damaged some kind of nerves
in there, and she should definatly go to
the doctors and have it checked out, maybe
its something more serious, thats not
normal to have so should be checked out :
)
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aworriedboyfriend
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 06-11-05 09:12am
Ok today she told me that, she was not
using a standard vibrator, but she was
just using a massager and was sitting on
it. I read somewhere that these massagers
are much too powerful to be used this
way... I think maybe some damage was
caused, but she keeps telling me she
doesnt want to go to a doctor because she
doesnt want someone feeling her up... And
I should stop worrying because its her
body... I dont know what I can tell her
to make her change her mind
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 06-11-05 16:47pm
Well shes being silly, but it is her body,
and if shes not going to take care of it
thats her own deal. But she should go
into the doctors, she can get a female
doctor, and you can be right there with
her.
