I met this guy we will call john on new
years eve. We are very different people
because he has a child, he is 23, has had
many sex partners, use to do drugs, used
to party, doesn't have a car, works at a
resturaunt, no college. I am the
complete opposite. I am going to school
to be a doctor, i'm 19, a virgin, never
done any drugs, drinks occasionally. We
still clicked for some odd reason. He
said he wanted someone to make him a
better person. We started dating until
about the middle of april when he told me
that he just wanted to be friends because
he needed to figure things out. I
couldn't bear losing him and he said he
still liked me, he just didn't want the
title. We still acted like bf and gf.
I slept there every night, was with him
all of the time, we were exclusive to each
other, he would kiss me in public, ect.
Then about 4 days ago he met up with a
girl he liked 5 years ago. He hasn't
really talked to me since. Says he
still likes me but wants to try things
with her and wants to have fun. I am
completely devastated because I am pretty
sure I am in love with the boy.
::sighs:: what should I do?
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sarahk
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 108 Location: England
Posted: 06-14-05 06:21am
Sounds to me like you can do much better.
By the sounds of it he just wants to have
his cake and eat it!
I think you should move on, you will find
someone who is better suited. If his
child and life style dont bother you now,
guarenteed they will in the future and it
could break you up!