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bluemoon560

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2005
Posts: 1
Devasted..need Advice
Posted: 06-11-05 14:03pm

I met this guy we will call john on new years eve. We are very different people because he has a child, he is 23, has had many sex partners, use to do drugs, used to party, doesn't have a car, works at a resturaunt, no college. I am the complete opposite. I am going to school to be a doctor, i'm 19, a virgin, never done any drugs, drinks occasionally. We still clicked for some odd reason. He said he wanted someone to make him a better person. We started dating until about the middle of april when he told me that he just wanted to be friends because he needed to figure things out. I couldn't bear losing him and he said he still liked me, he just didn't want the title. We still acted like bf and gf. I slept there every night, was with him all of the time, we were exclusive to each other, he would kiss me in public, ect. Then about 4 days ago he met up with a girl he liked 5 years ago. He hasn't really talked to me since. Says he still likes me but wants to try things with her and wants to have fun. I am completely devastated because I am pretty sure I am in love with the boy. ::sighs:: what should I do?
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sarahk

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005
Posts: 108
Location: England

Posted: 06-14-05 06:21am

Sounds to me like you can do much better. By the sounds of it he just wants to have his cake and eat it!

I think you should move on, you will find someone who is better suited. If his child and life style dont bother you now, guarenteed they will in the future and it could break you up!
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