Poopoopoo

No problem! The only reason that she said that I was defending all the pl was because I happened to mention that I was also prolife. It's ok though, I can be more mature and ignore it. I respect that people have there own opinions even if I may disagree with them.

I have done none of thoes things.

Also I don't generalize people into groups. I believe every one is an individual. I don't hate or even dislike everyone is pro choice. That would be discrimination.

I know you haven't. But trina has. Many times.

I do believe that not all prochoice are all proabort. I think that a lot of people who are pro choice just believe that a women has the right to chose. My best friend is pro choice. Now she would never have an abortion but she believes a women has the right to chose. Now once again I don't agree with her. But I respect her opinion because she can defend her opinion and she feels strongly about it.

Vanessalouanne, thank you for that post. Seems like there actually is then room for a dialogue. I appreciate that.


What are your thoughts on trying to prevent unwanted pregnancies through better sex-ed and better, cheaper, more available contraception?


And what are your views on better support of pregnant women and new families rather than "welfare reform" cuts to those populations?

Oh that is so frustrating! Sorry I just wrote a very long post on my beliefs on welfare, school sex ed and ect and it just all deleted. That sucks. Ok well here we go again and I apologize in advance for an misspellings because I am going to type quick. As far as sex ed I believe in preaching abstinace. I am one of thoes rare people who waited to have sex until I was married. But I am not stupid and I know that this is very unrealistic as far as teens today. I can honestly say I do not know one person besides my mother ( or so she says ) who waited until thy were married. Lol I believe that we need to educate high schoolers on resorces that they have. They need to know where they can go to get contriceptives. I know that many do not know all the things that they can get for free at planned parenthood. .. Ie condoms, birth control, ect. I think we also need to let them know the truth about doctor/patient confedentuality. (i know I butchered spelling that) I have read so many posts from young girls saying that they want to get on birth control but dont ask there doctors about it because their afraid that their parents will learn about it. They need to know that its ok for them to talk to their doctor. As for welfare.. Well I know this could get me lynched but I am a conservative republican. But I do believe that in the right cases welfare can be extreamly effective and helpful. My sisters best friend whom ive also concidered a sister is on welfare and lives in a government assisted apartment complex. She is a dam.N good mother and works two jobs to support her family. She is a single mother and both kids are special needs. Welfare in that case is a wonderful thing. I think that our government (us) has enough money in our welfare programs to support thoes in simmilar cases. What I do believe is that a lot of the money that is put away is misused. I think it is taken advantage of and that is we took a closer look, we could help a lot of families in need, and kick thoes off who take advantage of the system. I believe that health care costs are outragous. But I also know that if you educate yourself on what options are available to you that you will be pleasently surprised. I would love to know what you all think on these issues. I love hearing others opinions because I do listen to them. I like to take things into consideration. Im a hard person to budge from there opinion but I will listen to others arguments. Thanks guys

and again sorry about the horrible spelling!

I completely agree with you. I am sorry to hear about your husband. How is your son now? It is cases like thoes that make welfare a great thing and I believe that is why the system was set up. To help thoes who are truly in need.

I am a huge supporter of sign language.
I am actually fluent in asl. I am glad to hear he is doing well. My mother teaches special education at the middle school level and I know that there is nothing more rewarding then seeing thoes kind of acheivments. Just the fact that you have communication with your son is such a blessing! I am signing off here in a little bit, driving from southern california to oklahoma tomarrow to see the in-laws. Trina I hope that .God will continue to bless you family as it seems he already has! Good luck with your son and I hope I will be able to speak to you again soon!

Vanessa

Vanessa, you are very right in what you saidd , it is just that I cannot handle these welfare abuseers and lazy lifers that ddo not even try to go get off their butt's and pro-abort's and pro-death are very wrong and very immature, and I thank trina for summing up to it. Thanks again,
sincerely,
sandy