I was just wondering if anyone knew of any
solutions to a low sex drive for women.
I am 25 yrs old and have been with my bf
for 9 years and our relationship is on the
rocks for a few reasons, one of which is
that I dont desire sex with him anymore.
We used to be quite active, but in the
last few years I have lost interest to the
point of cringing at times. We're lucky
to have sex once every couple months!
Does anyone know of something besides love
aids and roll playing fantasies that could
help me get in the mood?
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river
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 06-14-05 00:34am
Many women experience the same feeling.
Sometimes certain medications can lower a
womans sex drive. I can relate because I
have been with my husband for 6 years and
we used to do it like rabbits!! Now it
is very hard for me to get into the mood!
I went to the doctors once and mentioned
it and she suggested that I see a sex
therapist. I didn't go because I was too
embarrassed. A lot of my friends go
through the same thing with their
boyfriends or husbands.
If you can come up with anything let me
know!!
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twentyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 61 Location: uk
Posted: 06-14-05 05:28am
Unfortunately im in the same boat, I been
with my bofriend for 2 years and I
completly have no sex drive I dotn want
him to touch me. I love him to death and
need to sort this out before its too late,
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yolanbr5
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jul 2006 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-13-06 20:37pm
I'm having the same issue. I was on a
birth control pill when we first started
dating and our sex life was unreal and
when I switched to another pill it all
went downhill. So my husband got highly
upset and pretty much told me to stop
taking them and I did, but I don't feel
much of a difference being off them.
It's only been two weeks since I stopped
taking them, but what's a girl to do now.
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niners
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 31
Posted: 08-16-06 07:42am
It's hard on your bf and husband,know that
you don't want to have sex with them.
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mongirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Michigan
Posted: 08-24-06 18:21pm
Well besides medication I would say to
spice up your sex life is to buy a sex toy
and let your man do it to you trust me it
will turn him on. Also if you want to get
into the mood then you could try having a
romantic candle light dinner or maybe get
some porn and watch it together to get
things started. Just holding hands and
kissing can kick start it for you. Just
experiment with a few different things and
if those dont work at all then look toward
the med side. Even try dirty talk you
will be surprised at what will get the
heat turned on in the bedroom!!!
