I am only 20 and was 12 weeks pregnant and
don't have any idea what to do and how to
cope with my babys loss. I just know I
had a doc. Appt. To hear my baby heart
beat and got worried when the doc. Could
not find one and well I was just looking
forward to this child with my husband and
well its hard the same day and time while
I was having a d&c surgery my sis was
having her child it just makes it very
hard on me and don't know how or what I
can do to keep my self from hurting so
much when I se her baby.
What can I do? And how long do I have to
wait untill I am able to have another
child?
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yougz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2005 Posts: 2 Location: pennsylvania
I Had My First Miscarriage Posted: 06-13-05 15:28pm
:( I understand how you feel I am 20 and
had my first miscarriage too. The relief
of not thinking I could get pregnant is
over but I am still scared bc I loved my
baby and want him,her bad. My husband and
family was a great support. There is
nothing I can say to make you feel better
other than your not the only one there but
hey have fun trying again. Yougz
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pinklily
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jun 2005 Posts: 7 Location: canada
Posted: 06-13-05 17:30pm
I am so sorry, I know having a miscarrige
is so had to deal with, I was 12 weeks
when I lost my baby in december, that was
the same time one of my g/f's got
pregnant. It was so hard to watch her be
so happy and no matter how hard I tried to
be happy for her I was still hurt and
jealous. I felt like I would never get
pregnant again.
But I am now 18 weeks pregnant, so dont
give up hope!!! No one can tell you how
to deal with the loss of your baby only
you know how you feel. Keep your chin
up!!
Lily
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jknight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jun 2005 Posts: 171 Location: Chilliwack
Posted: 06-14-05 02:30am
I am sorry for you loss, I just miscarried
yesterday and in december, I know how you
feel, I am really not sure how to deal
with it either, lots of my friend are pg,
and I have a hard time talking about their
pregnancy, it hurts alot now and you wont
ever forget it, but as time goes on it
will get easier to deal with. For me I
just have time to myself, and for the rest
of the time I just try to keep myself
busy, trying to stay working as much as I
can. I am sorry it this was not much
help to you, and again I am sorry for
your loss.
