New to the Board. Need Somewhere to Cry. Posted: 06-16-05 17:57pm
Just a little history. I am a divorced
single mom. I still stay in contact with
my ex for the children, and still have
maintained a good relationship with his
family.
I have been involved with a man for about
two years. We have recently moved in
together, a few months back. Our
relationship has been strained lately due
to stress, with the move, I suppose or
money. Either way, we have not been
getting along at all. Every night has
been a battle over something.
I love this man more than anything and
want to stay in our relationship, however,
I feel things ending slowly. I am afraid
to lose him, to be alone, and to lose
someone my children have grown to love.
I have tried to talk to him on several
occasions, to discuss issues, but he
doesn't want to listen, is either
preoccupied with something, or turns the
tables and blames me for my heartache.
I am devastated. Please give me some
advice as to how to talk to him. I don't
know where else to turn.
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wildirishrose352
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Texas
Dear Hunters_mom Posted: 06-16-05 18:36pm
I am just 17 years old and I know
absolutely nothing about relationships,
except for the one with my father. My dad
doesn't want to have anything to do with
me, your children are so lucky that they
have you and their father. If what I say
offends you i'm terribly sorry, have you
prayed, like sincerely prayed and asked
god for his guidance. I have turned to
him when all hope seemed lost and he's
always been there. He doesn't want you to
hurt, he will help you just be patient and
wait on him but he might be waiting on
you. I hope i've helped you in some way.
God bless. I will be praying for you.
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otep
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 4 Location: 11828 vere lkeasure
Posted: 06-24-05 03:23am
Im not that old either but ill give u my
advice. If ureally love that man u should
stay with him. But only if u know things
can change between u guys. I was w/ my gf
and things were going bad so I broke up w/
her. I was devestaded. I made a big
mistake. U never know how special a
person is until ur not w/ them. U never
realize how much u need a person unless ur
without them. What im trying to say is
that if u think hes worth it stay with
him. Dont make the same mistake I made.
4 me its to late but u still have a
chance. Good luck
