How I Get Out From This Situacion? Posted: 06-17-05 01:43am
I was with a man who is bipolar , ocd and
personaliy disorder, he was incredible on
the beginning , but after I was feeling
something is wrong with him, always
something weird, he lie a lot, he hide so
many things.
The first time he did something in from of
me , I was on panic, he cut himself, every
time we fight he did something like that,
the last time he burn his arm , but not
only that he try to kill himself 3 times
already and I save his like 2, after all
those incidents my life change 100% , I
was dedicate just for him, I was living
and worry just for him, but my memories
what he did to me on the past always was
there and maybe I never forgive it , but
now im not with him anymore, his parents
acuse me im the only one guilty of his
actions, I know its not truth, but made me
feel guilty , don't let me talk to him , I
feel desperate because I love him with all
my heart, I start to feel very depress, I
dont know what else to do, I start my
teraphy I hope that help me.
Please any advice?
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silver_tigress
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Nothing Else to Do Posted: 06-17-05 02:32am
I don't really think you have much choice
in this. If even his parents aren't
supportive of your efforts of trying to
help him, it sounds like you can't really
do much. I mean, i'm with a guy who's
got trust issues and that, and it's taken
me about 2 years to get him to totally
believe in me. He is much better, but
seeing as your guy has way much more to
get over, and has parents against you, how
much longer do you think it will be until
you can have a normal, happy life with
him? I'd say 10 years if you're lucky,
probably never.
Anyway, i'm rambling...I'd say get out
while you can. If it was me i'd make
sure someone was watching over him in case
he did something drastic, but never blame
yourself for what he is doing to himself.
It's in his mind. It's your life to
live, don't let that ruin it. Maybe you
could still keep in touch, but I say you
should move on, however hard it may be.
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