First Timer, a Little Worried Posted: 06-18-05 08:20am
Im 17, my girlfriend is almost 16. Last
night in her hot tub we got a little
intimate, one thing led to another and
before you know it I had it inside of her
unprotected. The thing is she felt no
pain at all, and I didnt go all the way
inside of her. There was no blood
either. Since we were in a hot tub I
couldnt feel wether or not I blew a load.
I dont think I did, but I cannot say for
sure.
Is it possible to get her pregnant without
even going all the way in and not even
popping her cherry? She said her period
is sometime next week. Does that mean
that she is already ovulating and I
shouldnt be worried? If I should be
worried about it I can always go get her
morning after pills.
It was both of our first times to do
anything like that so I am worried and she
isnt too worried. Can someone please
answer my questions?
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Vanna
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Posted: 06-19-05 15:32pm
Ok well yes it is possible to get her
pregnant the only thing u can do is really
just wait till she gets her period or have
her take a hpt test and well it might b a
lil late for morning after pills key words
morning after so they might not work but
even if she dose become pregnat its not
the end of the world trust me im 15 and im
pregnant and w/e yall decide to do weather
its abortion (wich I think is wrong) or if
she keeps it u need to stay by her side
through everything bc its harder when the
guy decides to ditch the girl trust me I
know the guy that got me pregnant he had
used to b my bf but he ditched me so w/e u
do just remember its just anther obsticle
in life
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-19-05 17:05pm
The morning after pill is good for up to
72 hours. And even if you were in the
water you should know whether you ""blew
a load"' and ovulating means you should
be worried it means she's fertile, but if
her period is supposed ot come this week
then her ovulation time is over. It's
possible that she can get pregnant but I
highly doubt it.
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sxcgirl_me
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Posted: 06-19-05 23:16pm
Vanna thats horrible, your reading a bit
too much into it, I think ur over
exxagerating a bit.
First of all its not likely you got her
pregnant so I wouldnt worry too much about
it ok? If she is though ( which I doubt
it) you both need to talk about it and
figure out a decision.\
i think at your age and considering you
have only just started having sex I think
abortion would be the easiest thing for
you 2 if she was pregnant
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ShaunCobb
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Posted: 06-19-05 23:48pm
Well the reason I didnt know if I did
explode was because I wasnt all the way in
and the hot tub jets were just going all
over down there so its hard to tell if I
did. I dont think I did, but I might have
and thats what im worried about. The main
reason I am worried is because she told me
tonight that she feels like she needs to
throw up, but she did eat some gross
looking pizza which could have caused it.
I think I am overstressing about it. Im
going to go see a doctor about it tomorrow
and see what he says. I can only hope her
period comes early this week so that I
know she is done ovulating.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-20-05 00:14am
Firstly when did this happen cause if it
was recent then she would not be having
any symptoms.
Secondly you have to learn what ovulation
means:
there are several ways to predict
ovulation. Women with regular menstrual
cycles can often make a good estimate just
by counting days on a calendar. If you
know when your period is going to come,
you need only count backward 14 days.
This will most likely be your day of
ovulation.
So she is not ovulating the whole time she
is not on her period. Girls/women only
ovulate for a couple of days.
Ovulation=fertile time.
I think you are just stressing over it.
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ShaunCobb
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Posted: 06-20-05 10:02am
It happened friday the 18th. Thanks for
the replies I really hope its just me
stressing too much over this because I am
very worried and she is just a little
worried
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-20-05 15:37pm
There is no way she would be having any
symptoms this early. And I think you're
just stressing. I'm pretty sure sh'es
not pregnant.
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Posted: 06-20-05 16:28pm
I just talked to a physician. She said
there is a chance she could be pregnant
and that even though she is done ovulating
already that she could still get pregnant.
I then mentioned that there was no blood
and no bleeding and she said oh well then
there is just the slightest chance of her
actually being pregnant. She said even
if I did let it out inside of her that the
chance still isnt that great.
I just talked to my girlfriend and even
though the idea of sex is good and it
feels good after you get through the first
few times, we both decided it probably
wouldnt be the best to continue doing.
She said her period is supposed to come at
the end of the week so I suppose its time
to cross my fingers
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little_pineapple
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Posted: 06-20-05 21:26pm
"popping her cherry" has nothing to do
with bleeding.
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