My Baby Is Cranky Today And I Feel Like I'm Gonna Lose It!! Posted: 06-19-05 18:50pm
My baby has been whiny all day and I feel
like I am gonna lose it. He was crying
earlier, and I got frustrated while
holding him, and sort of raised my voice
at him, telling him to stop. It made
matters worse. I feel so guilty now. I
find that when I am tired I am not as
patient with him. The way I hold him is
not as gentle either. I feel like such a
health forum of a mother today. Poor
little guy, sometimes I feel like I don't
deserve him.
He's too perfect. He has got the most
beautiful big blue eyes that just make you
melt, and a smile that would light up a
room, and gorgeous blonde sprigs of
hair.
Don't get me wrong, I would never hurt my
baby, I think I just need to take a walk
by myself. If his father would get his
ass in from out in the garage, and watch
him for a while!!!
Anyone else ever been through any
impatient moments with their babies
before?...Or am I being a health forum
mother????
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jmfsmom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: st louis
Posted: 06-20-05 13:24pm
You are a normal loving mommy,
experiencing what we all do as mothers.
When my little one got really fussy, I
just thought I would lose it.
But then I would "readjust" my
attitude...And decide I was going to "feel
him" and calm him. Sometimes we would go
out on the porch and rock...That always
helped...Or take a walk outside...
I would just look at his little face and
feel the love I had and use that to calm
him.
You will get thru it...
And then he will get into everything, walk
and fall, not stop talking (thats what my
2yrs old is like now) and whine whine
whine.
So it goes on and on...But they still
amaze you too.