Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Toronto, ON
Will a Divorcee Ever Get Married Again?? Posted: 06-20-05 19:56pm
I have been dating a 30 year old guy who
has been separated from his wife for the
past 14 months, they were only married for
6 months but dated for 6 years. They
are still in the process of getting a
divorce, the papers are all signed, all
the mutual debts just need to be settled.
He has said things in the past like "i
will never get married again", "i don't
mind have children out of wedlock", and on
the totally opposite end things like "when
you marry me .....". He is
understandably insecure right now as he is
still dealing with a lot of things right
now. I'm just looking for some opinions
in general here, since getting married one
day is a real sticking point for me. I
love him very much, and will stay with him
whether he decides marriage is right for
him again or not, I just wonder if I
should hold my hopes up or not. Thanks
for your opinions.
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force9
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 4 Location: England
the Answer to Your Question, From My Perspective, Is Yes. Posted: 08-28-05 08:29am
Hi.
I am one such man.
The answer to your question, from my
perspective, is yes.
However & assuming he's serious and is
going to get a divorce, that your not just
his support while he does and that he
loves you..
You must never approach the subject.
He will, when he's good and ready. Sorry.
Maybe not the answer you want to hear
right now.
But as I say.. This is just how I felt
and wanted to behave.
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First_time_mum
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Dubai.... for now
Posted: 09-01-05 05:27am
To answer your question, yes. A divorcee
will likely to marry again but it depends
on what situation he is in right now.
Divorce is one of the most difficult stage
a man or woman go through. Some
men/woman get over it easily, others
don't. A divorcee will marry when he is
ready. My husband is a divorcee and it
took him almost 2 years to be ready for
another serious relationship.
