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chickadee15
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Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 4
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Worried, Please Help Me
Posted: 06-20-05 20:52pm
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Hey this is a new topic.. Me and my bf
were juss playin around on the 17th and
today, the 20th. He put his penis into me
a couple times without a condom. But
like.. He just went in and out only a
couple times because we were scared.. He
said that he's not sure if he came and
that he might've a little. When he took
his penis out and I felt the tip, it was
wet but that might've been from me.. We
did it once again with a condom.. I
usually get my period on the 1st of every
month.. So was I ovulating when I had
sex? My boobs have been hurting more
recently and my appetite is getting
noticeably greater.. If you think I am
pregnant, are there any ways to prevent
having the baby or is it too late? I'm
trying to do anything that doesn't involve
my parents finding out.. I'm only 15
going on 16 though so i'm not sure if
that's possible.. Ah thanks
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-20-05 21:00pm
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No yo shouldn;t be ovulationg right now.
And there is a mornign after pill which is
good for up to 72 hours. But if you're
really worried about geting pregnant don;t
have any unprotected sex. Oh and you can
get pregnant from pre-cum.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 06-21-05 10:32am
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Check out the sticky post at the top.
The only way to know is to test.
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free money
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chickadee15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 4
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Posted: 06-21-05 13:02pm
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Thanks for the reply.. I have another
question. I wouldn't be able to test now
right? I should wait till my period
time..? Sorry, i'm a beginner at all of
this..
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babyblues
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2004 Posts: 94 Location: Windsor, Ontiaro
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Posted: 06-21-05 16:07pm
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Yea wait till after you miss your period
and don't think about it just wait and see
if you need to talk we are hear for
you......
Babyblues
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 06-22-05 12:11pm
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You can test up to 4 days before your
first missed period. But the longer you
wait, the more accurate it will be.
--
free money
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chickadee15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 4
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Posted: 06-22-05 19:27pm
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Am I supposed to feel like.. Motion
sickness all of the time?
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lilbabyshorty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jun 2005 Posts: 3 Location: aizona
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Are You Really Preg
Posted: 06-27-05 12:51pm
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Hey,
my name is katie and I am going through
the same problem. I feel really bad for
you because if your boyfriend says he
dosent know if he came then he must either
be lying or he just doesnt weant to speak
up. If you were a guy you would know.
Trust me I have asked plenty before I
wrote this message I am a sister to 5
older brothers. They are all cute so they
all have a girlfriend and yes they fool
around all the time in my house. My older
brother scotty got some girl lisa pregnant
and she was only 16. She took a pregnant
test 1 week after missing her period and
it was possitive. Her and scotty drove
down to the doctor clinic and paid 450.00$
for an abortion and its been 6 months and
nobody knows about it. The information is
very confermetial. Next time you and your
boyfriend choose to have sex tell him to
use a secure condom and tell him to always
be open and honest with you because it
puts alot of stress on your shoulders to
have to feel for a month or 2. Just try
to wait a while before you have sex again.
I know guys feel they need to have sex.
But if he cant hold off try explaining to
him about how having sex puts alot oon
your mind. Hope the best to you. - katie
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chickadee15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 4
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Posted: 06-27-05 18:25pm
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Thanks katie
would I be able to get an abortion without
my parents knowing? And I know this
sounds bad but is there anything I could
do to decrease the chances of the baby
even coming out.. Like I heard hot baths
increase the chance of miscarriages..
I'll find out if i'm pregnant or not in
about a week. Wish me luck!
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seksiHily
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: MN
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Posted: 06-27-05 18:36pm
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| chickadee15
wrote: | thanks katie
would I be able to get an abortion without
my parents knowing? And I know this
sounds bad but is there anything I could
do to decrease the chances of the baby
even coming out.. Like I heard hot baths
increase the chance of miscarriages..
I'll find out if i'm pregnant or not in
about a week. Wish me
luck! |
you can call planned parenthood to find
out abortion laws in your area.
Trying to miscarry is not a game, you put
your own body at risk.
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cknbb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2005 Posts: 35 Location: seattle
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Posted: 07-01-05 10:08am
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You're fertile to concieve between days 10
and 14 counting from the first day of your
last period. It's common for men to
"pre-ejaculate" the liquid that the sperm
swims in, it's only when he orgasms that
the sperm will meet up with the liquid and
come out. You can learn about this by
searching under keywords "nova life's
miracle" or something like that. There's
an educational video available to watch at
your computer that'll tell you everything.
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worried2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 7
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Same Problem
Posted: 07-03-05 22:22pm
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Hey you guys, im having the same problem.
My bf and I were fooling around (im only
16) and he put it inside of me for like 2
seconds, but it wasn't even deep at all.
He's absolutely positive he did not cum or
precum because he wasnt close to it at
all. I usually get my period around the
end of the month or the beginning of the
next month--but its the 3rd and im still
not getting it. I'm worried. My boobs
have been more sensitive and I get light
cramps sometimes but those are signs of my
period about to come also. Should I be
worried? Or should I wait and see what
happens? Thanks all.
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maticus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 14 Location: aus
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Posted: 07-04-05 06:56am
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I would say it's best to wait at least a
week before you start to panic, they do
sound like the signs of getting your
period and it's also too soon to start
feeling the effects of pregnancy. Most of
the time, the earliest you start to feel
signs of pregnancy is two weeks at the
earliest.
Hope that eases your mind a little :)
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worried2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 7
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Questions
Posted: 07-04-05 07:29am
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Thank you -- but it has been more than 2
weeks I think, so I should be able to feel
the effects of pregnancy, right? I know
that most women "spot" when they get
pregnant, which happens about 1-2 weeks
after conception i've read, but that hasnt
happened to me yet. Also I havent had
morning sickness or anything. M just
scared because usually my period is mostly
on time, it hasnt been delayed before, but
im feeling paranoid... There is a slight
possibility that I could be pregnant, but
I definitely hope not.
Are there any sure-fire symptoms that i'm
pregnant that could be detected this
early?
How many days is considered "late" for a
period? And
how long should I wait before becoming
worried?
I would appreciate it sooo much if someone
could help me :) thank you guys!
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maticus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 14 Location: aus
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Posted: 07-04-05 07:46am
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Have you tried a pregnancy test yet? They
really helped my girlfriend with her
paranoia with being pregnant. I think
teenage girls can't handle the whole
pregnancy issue as well as an adult or
more mature woman can. It's natural to
panic about this stuff, I think I paniced
more than my girlfriend which doesn't help
either lol. Try not to panic though, it
just makes your periods later I believe
from what I have read up about. You sure
would have felt some signs of pregnancy if
you were, eg. Nausia and sore breasts,
feeling sick etc..
Seeing that you are also a teenager, I
believe that it could also be your first
time to possibly skip your periods. Let's
just hope this is the case for the time
being, but if you continue to fret
throughout the week, purchase a hpt (home
pregnancy test) and try it out (buy three
for certainty).
If this doesn't comfort you, others will
reply also so yeh.. I wish I could be
more helpful but this is what I have
learnt so far :)
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worried2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 7
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Thank You :d
Posted: 07-04-05 08:08am
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Haha thanks maticus for all your help--
maybe i'm just going through hormonal
changes and stuff- I hear its not too rare
that teenagers have irregular periods
since their bodies have not regulated it
yet. Besides, its the 4th, I can wait a
week to see if its coming or not. Lol,
my boyfriends pretty stressed too, I wish
my period would just come so that I don't
worry anymore!!!
I would get a pregnancy test, but I dont
want anybody finding out (parents
especially). Do you have any
suggestions? How long does it take
usually for a pregnant woman's stomach to
become visibly larger? Thanks everyone
and maticus :)
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-05-05 12:31pm
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How can a guy not know if he came or not.
.. Its usually pretty obvious, sorry I
just wanted to get that off my chest
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mum2beee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Posts: 99
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Posted: 07-05-05 12:34pm
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I've had that I were 16 and the boy didn't
know whether he 'cum' or not I had to get
the morning after pill didn't dare tell my
mum.
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broadcastedlife
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
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Posted: 07-05-05 16:23pm
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| chickadee15
wrote: | | am I supposed to feel like..
Motion sickness all of the
time? |
i don't think you begin to actucally start
feeling preg untill your further along.
I'm 12weeks 5 days and I didn't feel it
whe I got preg.
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broadcastedlife
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
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Re: Thank You :d
Posted: 07-05-05 16:24pm
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wrote: | haha thanks maticus for all
your help--
maybe i'm just going through hormonal
changes and stuff- I hear its not too rare
that teenagers have irregular periods
since their bodies have not regulated it
yet. Besides, its the 4th, I can wait a
week to see if its coming or not. Lol,
my boyfriends pretty stressed too, I wish
my period would just come so that I don't
worry anymore!!!
I would get a pregnancy test, but I dont
want anybody finding out (parents
especially). Do you have any
suggestions? How long does it take
usually for a pregnant woman's stomach to
become visibly larger? Thanks everyone
and maticus
:) |
i've just barely started show and i'm in
my second trimester. ( 12 weeks 5 days)
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