Getting Pregnant the Day Before My Period And When Precum Co Posted: 06-20-05 23:25pm
I missed my period and I got a pregnancy
test on the 10th which was 4 days after I
missed my period it was negative adn then
I took one on the 16th and it said it was
positive and a doctor confirmed it today.
Now the problem is I messed around with
this guy at a party exactly almost when I
was supposedly most likely to get pregnant
which was on the 18th of the previous
month. He had his dick in me for two-
five mionutes is it possible for him to
get me pregnant. He never came in me and
he was pretty drunk I was sober. However
the guy I have been seeing for the past
three weeks who i've slept with pretty
much every day had sex with me the day
before my period. I started getting
cramps that day then I missed my period.
When is the soonest you can detect
pregnancy? Is it possible that two
minutes got me pregnant? I stopped
because with that guy I knew it was a
wrong decision. Oh and the guy i'm with
now has never came in me however I do know
about pre cum. I just don't want to
play it off like it's his if it isn't.
Can a doctor tell how far along you are in
a pregnancy there would be a two and a
half week gap between the two? Would it
be that accurate?
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Sammy001
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 711 Location: ,
Posted: 06-21-05 12:05pm
When you get your first ultrasound done,
they can determine exactly how many days
regnant you are. For instance, at my
first one...It was 9 weeks, and 5 days...
Thats how good they medical equipment is
these days.
I suggust maybe not telling any of the
guys until your first ultrasound, and go
from there.
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 06-22-05 09:35am
Also they can tell when you conceived so
if that helps (which I think in your case
could help you out a lot)-only because
then you could think back and figure out
who you were with those dates like try to
think back and see who you've been with
around the date that you conceived! Andif
worse comes to worse the ycould take a dna
test....
**** but watch because some guys won't use
their urine but instead they'll sneak in
someone elses so it will show up that it's
not their kid....I doubt all men do that,
because not all men are rotten but my
cousin hangs out w/ some kid who said he
did that and I thought you know what a
jerk. But you'll figure it out. Next
time don't sleep with more then one
partner that's not safe....Because of
s.T.D.'s and stuff. I'm not judging you
just helping you out a bit.
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linuxChique
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Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-22-05 10:16am
Yes its very possible and probably most
likely that they guy you fooled around
with at the party is the baby's daddy.
If you do need to get a dna test.. Get
the swab one done...Where they take tissue
samples from the inside of your
cheek...That way no one can alter the
results, and each potential dad is
present.
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 06-23-05 09:43am
Sammy001 .....
I agree with you 100%.....To be safe have
the guys do a swab test that way htey
won't play games.
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Strawberrie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Canada
Sorry to Say This But... Posted: 06-25-05 11:07am
What you did was very discraceful, if you
really loved your boyfriend do you think
you would have done that? Espically in a
total sober state?
Anywyas... I think you should just wait
until the ultrasound they are able to
determine the accurate date that you
concieved, so good luck. I hope you don't
have to tell your boyfriend about it. But
I think sooner or later you should at
least tell him what you did, becuase it's
wrong to keep stuff like that from your
partner.
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 06-25-05 11:55am
Jlee77 you wrote the following:
they don't test the man's urine, they test
his dna/sperm.......
How do you think they test their sperm?
By giving them a urine test...Trust me I
know only because my couisns friend said
that he had to get tested because some
girl said she was pg to him and when he
went to take a test he had a thing of
urine which was his friends and not his
which he tucked in his jacket 'til he went
into bathroom to get his sample to see
rather or not it was his sperm that got
the girl pg......A dna test is taken by
taking a sample of saliva in the mouth by
swabbing the inside of the mouth....
You aren't that bright...Are you?
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 06-25-05 11:59am
Mitchell11325
you messed around with another guy while
still being with your boyfriend? How
could you do something like that? Doing
stuff like that will only make your
boyfriend (or now ex boyfriend question if
the babys really his...And he probably
won't ever trust or have any respect for
you at all anymore)! What a huge mess
you got yourself into.....Remember the
grass isn't always greener on the other
side....What a pig-eww!
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ilovemyboo777
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 06-25-05 13:56pm
How could u just do that to your
boyfriend? I mean if you love him then
why would you go medical question around
with other men? Its not that hard to say
no to sex... I mean come on dont you have
a little compasion and self respect? What
you did was very very wrong and I hope
your boyfriend can see what you did and
let him make his own judgement. But if
you can come trutfully and tell him that
you did that kudos to you. I really
really hope that the baby is your
boyfriends and it most likely is but if
not you have no one absolutely no one to
blame but your self because you were in a
sober state and could easily have said no
