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samy444
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Does This Bother You Girls?
Posted: 06-21-05 07:04am
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I am a guy 28 years, I dont have a really
long experience in sex, but I have one
problem that I need girls opinion in it,
my hands get really sweaty during sex
which make me uncomfortable touching my
girl`s body.
I wonder does this bother the girl if she
to be touched by sweaty hands?
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Sammy001
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Posted: 06-21-05 07:49am
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When someone is hot and sweaty during
intercourse...It is all the more sexy...It
shows your into it... Don't worry about
it..
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samy444
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Posted: 06-21-05 07:55am
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The thing is , it is only my hands that
sweat, while touching her "down there" it
is no problem because it is wet there any
way, but while touching her body (which is
a very important thing to turn her on) my
hands get sweaty that it may make her skin
wet.
Did anyone experience this before, or it
is only me??
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Posted: 06-21-05 08:35am
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Hey samy444
during sex the woman's body temperature
rises anyways and generally feels
warmer...Your damp hands might not even be
noticable compared to her own hot skin.
She's probably focused on how good your
making her feel, not how dry your hands
are.
If you're really worried, however, try
tracing her body with ice during sex. The
cold wetness of the ice will be a turn on
to her, and as it melts everything gets
wet from the water anyways.
Its win/win! =)
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samy444
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Posted: 06-21-05 10:19am
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Thats a really good idea, the point is to
make everything wet so my sweaty hands
wont affect anything.
Anyone else has more ideas for me??
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Lisa01443
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Posted: 06-21-05 10:55am
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Swety hand are good it makes us feel like
you are loving the experiance so dont
worry it'll be ok, actually she prob does
it as well feel her hands lol 8)
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samy444
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Posted: 06-21-05 11:17am
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Thanks lisa for your reply
it make me feel more confident I guess (i
need that ;)), just also I will play down
there a lot so that the wettness will
appear as if it coming from her juices
(cheating.....)
so getting hand sweat happens sometimes??
It doesnt sound a strange thing?
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Posted: 06-21-05 12:46pm
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Yeah hand sweat happens and its really not
a big deal.
If you're close enough to get intimate
with someone im sure they wont notice or
care about it.
Besides, sammy001 and lisa01443 are
right...It makes us feel like you're into
us and are really affected and turned on
by us. A very good thing lol
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samy444
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Posted: 06-21-05 12:53pm
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You girls are really very nice....
I didnt expect these kind of replys , I
was expecting something like "go see a
doctor" , but looks like I will start to
look at this issue with a different aspect
and try to make use of it, you will never
believe how this problem was depressing me
sometimes in the past....
One more thing, concerning the smell, do
girls like perfume smell during sex? Or
normal deodorant? Or nothing at all only
clean smell?
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Posted: 06-21-05 14:25pm
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I personally dont think it matters much as
long as it isnt foul lol
i have been with a partner just out of the
shower, after a long day's work, and amost
anytime in btw. If she's excited enough
to be aroused by you and want to have sex,
then I wouldnt worry about running off to
put deoderant on. Just go with it.
Dont get me wrong, a nice smelling man is
wonderful ...All im saying is dont worry
about it too much. Even natural body
scents can turn a woman on if you forgot
to put cologne on lol
*hugz*
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Its No Bother
Posted: 06-21-05 15:01pm
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Sweaty hand are nothin ive had guys with
sweat pouring off there forheads befor. I
just mean your really really into it.
Dont worry we dont think about sweaty
hands during that time trust me
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Its No Bother
Posted: 06-21-05 15:03pm
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Sweaty hand are nothin ive had guys with
sweat pouring off there forheads befor. I
just mean your really really into it.
Dont worry we dont think about sweaty
hands during that time trust me
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samy444
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Posted: 06-21-05 23:40pm
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I imagine that these kind of things
"sweaty hands" would show that the guy is
not enough confident, so I guess this can
turn the girl off as I know that girls
like confident men, but in my case it is
not because I am not confident it is just
my nature, the hard part is the very
begining when I start holding her hands
and talking to her as a "preparation"
before getting into action
wooow
sometimes it feels very bad....
What do you think???
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Posted: 06-23-05 08:53am
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I know all about lacking confindence..Lol
if you're ever worried about it as its
happening, just bring it up. Dont make it
sound like a bad thing, just tell her that
you're so into her and so attracted to her
that she makes you get nervous a lil. In
a good way. Tell her you would do
anything to please her and that you just
want to make her happy and that sometimes
you worry that you might not make her
feels as good as she deserves. Henceforth
the sweaty hands.
Whether or not its 100% true (altho im
sure it is), she'll be flattered by it and
think yer the sweetest man on earth and it
will make her smile when she notices (if
she notices) it next time.
Also, by bringing it up it makes it less
"taboo". It becomes something you can
talk about and explain instead of having
both of you awkwardly ignore it. Makes
it seem less of a big deal as well (cos
really its not that bad). =)
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Posted: 06-23-05 09:12am
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Unhappy,
i think you are right, talking about the
problem makes it seems like it is not a
problem, this what happened with my first
gf, I talked to her nicely and she said
that I cant be serious that I think it is
a problem, but because she is a nice girl
in general I didnt expect her to complain
about anything, thats why I asked for
opinions here in the forum just in case
she only want me to feel good.
And by reading all the posts here in the
forum I found out how minor is my problem
compared to others(erection, ejaculating,
sex drive...Etc), which I dont have (touch
wood ;))
so.....I am happy I am doing everything
good except this thing
by the way, I am about to try a treatment
for this, it is a sort of injection which
should keep hands dry for months.......So
wish me luck
thanks
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