Scared And Heartbroken At Same Time Posted: 06-21-05 16:31pm
The other night my fiance and I got in a
fight after he didnt come home until 3 in
the morning. It ended up with him taking
my ring and him grabbing me by my hair and
mr arms and my clothes and my neck and
throwing me down repeatedly everytime I
tried to get up. He also grabbed me by my
face and screamed at me that he didnt want
to ever see me again. I didnt know what
else to do so I broke down and started
crying then he stopped never saying that
he was sorry but that he did want to be
with me and that he loved me but basically
saying that everything that happened was
my fault. I dont know what got into him
as to why he acted that way. I love him
with all my heart but I am very
emotionally hurt. When I look at him to
kiss him I cant because all I hear is him
screaming that he never wanted to see me
again. Please help and tell me what to do
from now.
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adams4E
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Re Scared And Heartbroken Posted: 06-23-05 20:37pm
What happened with your fiance is a
warning sign. I am sure that he has never
done anything like it before, but that
doesn't mean that it is okay. There is no
reason for anyone to ever put there hands
on you in any way that is unwelcome,
especially to potentially harm you! It
seems like he might have been guilty also,
because even after saying he was sorry
repeatedly, he managed to blame you. Even
if you did do something wrong, he
physically abused you, that is
unforgivable. Please be cautious with
your heart, I know it will hurt to let him
go now, but imagine the pain you will feel
if this happens again, it can become a
vicious cycle. Friends and family will be
more than happy to help you get through
any hard times with this. Please don't
let yourself be another statistic. I can
imagine that it would be hard to end your
engagement, but you need to look out for
yourself. You deserve someone who will
treat you like a queen. . . It doesn't
seem to me that your fiance does. My
advice would be to end it, as hard as it
will be, it's most likely the best thing
you can do for yourself.
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