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Mommy_2_b
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No Wedding
Posted: 11-15-03 09:27am
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 hi
guys, look this may not make a lot of
sense it still doesn't make sense to me,
but I knew I could count on you guys to at
least listen to me. I got up this morning
and everything was beautiful, snow had
fallen just a nice little blanket and the
sun was shining, I went to get my hair
done and when I came home I started
putting my wedding dress on. Thats when I
got the phone call... From scott. He was
calling from cuba with another girl. The
wedding is cancelled and I have to have my
stuff out of the house before he comes
home in 2 weeks. Much love ~melissa
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Oh Gosh
Posted: 11-15-03 10:55am
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Sweetie,
i am so sorry! I wish I knew what to say
to make you feel better. That must be
horrible! I really wish you the best and
I am so very sorry about this!
Love,
chanda
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youngmomtobe
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Joined: 19 Oct 2003
Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 11-15-03 11:27am
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Melissa,
that is horrible sweetie im soo sorry
what an ass on your wedding day you poor
thing im soo sorry we all here for u hang
in there do u want me to kick his ass? :p
much love sweetie and god bless!!
Jen
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Seana Analesa
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003
Posts: 83
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Posted: 11-15-03 11:49am
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Melissa, I am so sorry! He is such a jerk
to do that to you! You know what though,
this may sound a little heartless but if
he did this to you, it is much better that
he cancelled the wedding. Know why?
Because if he decided to mess around with
this cuban girl and then come back home
and marry you, you know that he wouldn't
be faithful and you would end up later
divorcing him because he was cheating.
You don't need a guy like that! You need
a man that is all grown-up, someone that
will love you with his full heart and soul
and not some little boy that goes around
and cheats on his beautiful and sweet
fiance! Everything happens for a reason!
I am sure the love of your life will come
walking into your life sooner than you
know! And he will truly love you with
everything in him! So for today I say go
put your wedding dress on, and go play in
the snow! Scott missed out on a good
thing, not you!
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youngmomtobe
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Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 11-15-03 12:36pm
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Seana,
I dont think anyone could have said that
better!! I agree w/ her melissa! Put
your dress on and play in the snow!!
Hehe!!!Much love!!
Jen
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Alexa
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003
Posts: 101
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Soo Sorry Melissa
Posted: 11-15-03 13:54pm
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But the girls have said it all!!! Enjoy
the snow!!! Take care hun!!! 
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kitty_55
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Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Omg!
Posted: 11-15-03 14:02pm
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Omg I cant belive he did that too you!!!!!
He just doesnt understand how great you
are...I agree with seana. You are better
off without him..If he cheats once he will
cheat again..I think you just need to
worry about yourself for awhile..Take care
of yourself go get your hair cut or
something to make you feel better! Please
keep in touch! **gives you a big hug**
alison xoxo
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gabrielle
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Location: ohio
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Posted: 11-15-03 15:37pm
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:d u are better without him and I agree
with all the other girls! They all took
the words right out of my mouth! He is a
jerk and doesn't deserve you. It'll get
better over time. And if it
don't......Kick his ass!
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Darling
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Posts: 875
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Posted: 11-15-03 15:58pm
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My god! You must be so overwhelmed with
so many different feelings right now. As
all the other girls have said he certainly
does not (caps) deserve such an amazing
woman as you. Right now your probably
devastated but stay strong and hang in
there. You will make it through this.
Sending hugs and lots of love your way~~
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 11-15-03 16:29pm
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Melissa-im so sorry huni.What a health
questions he is.Whats gonna happen now?
What about ur baba? 
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-15-03 19:43pm
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Thank you guys, I know that you guys are
all rite, but
that doesnt make it any easier rite now.
Im just worried about my babies now. Much
love melissa
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Alexa
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Joined: 14 Nov 2003
Posts: 101
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Posted: 11-15-03 19:59pm
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We know it's not going to ge easy!! But
hang in there!!! He didn't deserve you!!
You are sucha a great women and you will
find a true loving,faithfull,wonderful
husband that will cherish you!!! So your
having twins??!! That's wonderful!! Do
you know what your having??? Got any
names yet??!! Don't worry they would be
fine!! You can count on us!! You know we
love ya' and will always be here for you
no matter what!! Lots luck of love
melissa!!!
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youngmomtobe
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Joined: 19 Oct 2003
Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 11-15-03 20:34pm
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Hey mel,
hang in there sweetie!! Just be glad he
did it now and not later when u actually
married him you would have been so
miserable....We are all here for you we
are family and family stick together and
help eachother out if u need anything
anything at all just ask us and we will do
our best to help you !! We all love u!!
And you and your babies are in my
prayers!! Much love and god bless u!!!
Jen
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Suzy
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Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 11-15-03 20:48pm
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Aaww melissa, I am so so sorry. Nothing
could hurt a person more in a relationship
than their partner cheating. It is the
ultimate betrayal of ones trust. To make
matters worse, it is incredibly hard to
trust again after you have been scarred so
deeply. I hope his cuban girlfriend gives
him genital warts or herpes, that will
teach him a lesson.
Take care melissa, and I wish you all the
nice things in the world.
Suzy
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manda panda
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Joined: 30 Oct 2003
Posts: 33
Location: New York State
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So Sorry
Posted: 11-16-03 00:20am
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Melissa,
i am speechless. (yeah, yeah everybody I
know....Manda panda is speechless for
once) I am imagining how I would feel if
my fiance suddenly called off our wedding
in such a manner and my heart is just
breaking for you. I am so terribly sorry.
I completely understand what you mean
when you say that the support of all the
girls is wonderful and that they are
right, but, for right now at least, that
means nothing. God, my heart goes out to
you hon. We'll all be here for you when
the time comes for you to finally vent.
Love and best wishes for you and your
babies,
manda panda
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Yazmine
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Joined: 13 Oct 2003
Posts: 156
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Posted: 11-16-03 00:23am
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Im soooo sorry!!! He has made a bad/dumb
mistake....This cuban chick probablly will
just use him...He obviously wasnt the
right now u might still have feelings for
him but u dont need him....U are a strong
wonderful, loving woman dont let anyone
bring u done...He is a worthless jack a**
yaz
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Darling
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Posted: 11-16-03 01:12am
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Melissa hang in there. You have to stay
strong for those beautiful babies of
yours. If anything do it for them. Your
boyfriend just lost out on a beautiful
woman and 2 amazing miracles.
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-16-03 18:27pm
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Guys -(gals sorry) thanks for the support
and trust me I mean it. Rite now everyone
is in shock my lil bro aj is to the point
he would just love to get ahold of scott
for doing this to us... It wouldnt be
good. Scotts parents are still very
supportive of me and are very shocked this
is not how they raised their son to be.
Rite now I really dont care about him
though all I care about are my little
miracles that are going to be here in a
few months that im sure will fly by. Much
love melissa
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youngmomtobe
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Joined: 19 Oct 2003
Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 11-16-03 18:31pm
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Mel,
do u have messenger or anything??? Im
still really sorry!! And im right there
with your lil bro!!! Im glad his parents
are still supportive and arent being cruel
or anything! Good thats what oyur focus
should be on your lil miricles!!Much love
and god bless!!
Jen
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Re: No Wedding
Posted: 11-16-03 19:09pm
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| mommy_2_b
wrote: | | hi
guys, look this may not make a lot of
sense it still doesn't make sense to me,
but I knew I could count on you guys to at
least listen to me. I got up this
morning and everything was beautiful, snow
had fallen just a nice little blanket and
the sun was shining, I went to get my hair
done and when I came home I started
putting my wedding dress on. Thats when
I got the phone call... From scott. He
was calling from cuba with another girl.
The wedding is cancelled and I have to
have my stuff out of the house before he
comes home in 2 weeks. Much love
~melissa |
oh sweetheart, I am so sorry! I wish that
there was something that I could do for
you! You and your sons are better off
without this guy! I mean seriously what
kind of father figure would he be cheating
on their mommy? Sweetheart you are a
great person, a great mother and a great
friend! You will find someone who
deserves you in no time!
Much love
-jessika-
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