I would liek some opinion about a
situation.. One of my best friends have
been going out with a chick for about 10
months now.. He honestly thinks hes in
love with her.. Like literally.. He
states hes been asked by chicks 10 times
hotter to dump her for them but he says no
bcuz hes soooooo in love with her.. But
the case is.. She dumped him and has
now hit the sluttier time of her life..
He was literally in love with her and now
shes letting guys grab things, if you know
what I mean in other words ill say just
doing it them well I few yes she has but..
All he can think about is slitting bcuz
he was madly in love with her.. He
states he cant concentrate on school
homework anything bcuz she is the only
thing on his mind.. He wines that
watching her kiss other guys makes him
wanna kill himself.. Literally.. He
also states its hard to love another after
getting hurt sooo much :(.. Plz some1
help my friends case.. I try as hard as I
can but would like some other help..
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poetmcc
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 273
Hi Posted: 06-22-05 15:04pm
Hey link, how are you doing today? Sorry
you are going through such a tough
situation. It feels like you would give
up your life for this girl and she doesn't
even seem to care. Myabe you should ask
yourself: if she doesn't care for me, why
should I care for her? I know its so hard
to do but its an option.
Sometimes when you are feeling this badly,
the best thing to do is to talk to someone
about it- someone you can confide in,
someone who will listen.
Again I hope you feel better. Take care
and keep posting on how you are doing.
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link
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 22
Posted: 06-22-05 15:30pm
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akw14
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 12
Posted: 06-22-05 16:16pm
I, like yourself get very depressed over
breakups. I have had suicidal thoughts
before, but you have to keep reminding
yourself of all of the good things in your
life and all of the people that care about
you. There is someone out there for you
and that someone will appreciate you.
Sure you care about this girl a lot, but
you want to have someone that wants to
share their life with you and that can
return the love, affection and respect.
Throwing your life away on a girl that
could care less would be a total waste.
You're obviously a very caring person and
you deserve the same in return. It's
hard, but i've been there. I am in love
with a guy that i've been with for over a
year, but he can't commit to me because I
have two children and he can't handle
that. I can't hold it against him, but I
still hurt. Life goes on, and you will
definitely find that someone special.
Don't let a girl ruin your life. I could
go on for days, because I have dealt with
this same thing for so long. You're
going through a hard time, but you can get
through it, and you can be happy again.
Good luck!
