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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Urgent Pregant Incident
Posted: 06-24-05 23:20pm
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Ok me and my girlfriend had sex twice, one
3-4 days after her period ended and the
other 7-9 days after her period has ended.
The first time we had sex I used a condom
but then she pulled my condom off and told
me to go in bare. I foolishly agreeded
but I made sure that no pre cum was on my
penis and I jerked off to make sure that
no pre cum would cum out. After 5 jerking
attempts I went inside her for around 30
secs to a minute. After 15 seconds of
slowly thursting I pulled out to check if
there was pre cum. From my perspective
there was not so I wiped my penis..
Jerked off a little and there was itty
bits of pre cum oozing .. I made sure to
wipe this clean and went in her again.
This happened 2 more times of this
pattern. The 2nd time we had unprotected
sex I didnt use a condom at first but I
made sure that there was no precum or
anything of that sort on my penis. After
I made sure there was no precum I went
inside her and pulled out after 15 seconds
and made sure taht there was no precum.
It was kinda hard to tell because her
vagina juices made my penis wet but I was
pretty sure there wasnt. This lasted for
a 1 or 2. But now I regret everything I
did and I am very scared and frighten. I
just need some guidance because I love her
and getting her pregangt is the worst
thing that could happen. This is the
worst decisions I made in my life..
Please dont ridicule me because I already
know the situation im in. I just need to
know the likelyhood of her gettin pregangt
and other mischilanous information that
could be helpful and ease my nerves.
Thanks.
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 06-25-05 13:49pm
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Can someone give me some feed back
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
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Posted: 06-25-05 14:52pm
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Seems like you were pretty careful about
not cumming in her, yes there is always
that itty bitty chance, but for almost a
year my boyfriend and I used the 'pull out
method" with no other protection, yes it
was scary sometimes, but I never got
pregnant. Though being tired of worrying
and knowing we wernt being responsible I
decided to go on birth control, (my
boyfriend hates condoms and does not enjoy
sex with one on) birth control was the
best thing for me to do, and the way it
sounds is that your girl friend doesnt
like the feeling of condoms, I know I dont
like condoms either, I definatly prefer
the bareness, so if you both are clean of
any stds tell her if you want to continue
having sex without a condom that she needs
to go on birth control, and things will be
a lot better, the chances of her being
pregnant now are very un likely, but if
she misses her period you know the drill,
just take a test. Best of luck, keep us
posted! : )
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 06-25-05 17:39pm
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Thanks for your encouraging words! Hehe
it made me feel much better about this
whole situatuion.. Do you know where I
could get bc pills? Which brand would be
the best? How often do she take them ..
Everytime right after sex? How old do you
have to be?
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
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Posted: 06-25-05 19:43pm
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I would suggest having her call plan
parenthood, (if shes under the age of 18)
because she can get them through this
clinic without her parents knowing, if she
is over 18 or doesnt mind telling her
parents, then she can just go to her
doctor. I suggest going on ortho
tri-cyclen lo, its done great for me, and
plan parenthood would most likely choose
this one for her anyways. Birth control
pills you take once everyday at the same
time! This is very important and you
must be very responsible with it, she has
to pick a time in the day or night, and
take one pill everyday at that same time.
When you miss pills or are very late
taking them you have a bigger chance at
her getting pregnant if you have sex.
Plan parenthood gave them to me for free,
they gave me over a years supply. It all
depends on if she can qualify for it, and
im not sure what state you live in. But
this is all knoweledge based on my
experience. How old are you guys, and
what state are you in? :)
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 06-26-05 21:05pm
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Whats parentshood number? I and my
girlfriend are 16 and we live in texas
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
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Posted: 06-26-05 23:47pm
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Go to planparenthood.Com and search for
the clinic nearest you. Then call and set
up and appt. Just for a heads up you
might be on the hold on the phone for a
while, because I sure was when I called.
You should have your gf call though, they
will think its a little weird if you call
and set up an appt. For birth control.
Well best of luck and feel free to post if
you have any further questions! : )
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ilovemyboo777
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 07-12-05 18:33pm
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Man im gettin scared...I think she was
suppsoed to start today or tommorw or
yesterday or sometime this week and shes
not..She started to discharge red/light
brown stuff and she went to the club last
nite and her breasts are sore..Im so
scared
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 07-12-05 20:28pm
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Man im really scared...Im sweating and
gettin panic attacks we probably sdtill
have 1 or 2 days left I ono but im really
scared...Her breasts were sore on sunday
and she let out discharge...She says her
breats usally get sore and she usually
getes discharge when she is about to be on
her period also at sunday she was the club
and danced for 4.5 hours...And now her
whole body is sore..Is this a sign?
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justacanadiangirl
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Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 07-12-05 23:30pm
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I think it was just the dancing...Relax,
stressing won't help.
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 07-12-05 23:40pm
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Im really terrifiend and I am just praying
to god if he could give me a chance
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justacanadiangirl
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Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 07-12-05 23:46pm
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I hope it all works out for u hun. But
hey, what's done is done. U can't change
it. Good luck.
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 07-13-05 07:46am
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Thanks ... I found out some good news
though.. She started on june 12th and
ended on june 17th..Which means shew ill
start 28 laters which is jul15th..Thats
good right? And she says she always lets
out clear brown discharge and now her
breasts arent tender anymore
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 07-13-05 11:40am
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Well that's good. Now i'll bet u've
learned from this experience haven't u?
Do what u feel comfortable with. And as
long as u can handle the consequences then
go for it. Just be more careful next time
ok? Good luck hun!
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ilovemyboo777
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Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Posts: 15
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Posted: 07-13-05 13:26pm
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Oh thank god she started today im so
blessed thanks all
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Idony
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Posted: 01-09-08 21:15pm
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do you realize this post is from 2005!!!
start a new one
oh and am i pregnant stuff is supose to go
in the am i pregnant forum, thats what its
there for
~alicia~
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scaredat15
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Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 1
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Re: Urgent Pregant Incident
Posted: 06-05-08 14:30pm
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ok i can relate..im 15 years old and my
parents belive im a virgin.
but may 21,2008 i took my boyfriends
virginity.. and not thinking i didnt grab
a condom and he didnt know when to pull
out..it has been 2 weeks to this day..i
had a period But it was only 4 days and i
barley bleed.
im haveing all the symthoms but im so um
sure what to do..
my family would tripp and so would his.
im
so confused about what i should do..can
someone help.
it would be muchly thanked!
ScArEd@15
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Ingi
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Re: Urgent Pregant Incident
Posted: 06-05-08 14:52pm
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Take a pregnancy test. You can get one for
free @ planned parenthood. They also have
FREE birth control.
It doesn't sound like you are pregnant.
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daisycz
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Posted: 06-09-08 15:41pm
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i dont want 2 scare u but this happend 2
me. My ex-boyfriend and i had unprotected
relations during a whole yr n he always
did what u said, but 1 time it didnt wrk
at all, i got pregnant and it changed my
life. i didnt want d baby, i was not with
that guy. But i guess everything happens 4
a reason n u cant change it. i know all my
life changed n now i have a 3yr old boy
that means d world 2 me, ill give my life
4 him in a heart beat. dont think she is
pregnant just b calm n relaxd they say if
u worry so much it maybe that she is. just
let it go cuz she is probably not if she
knows her oviolation time n u should now
those days 2. hey a mans sperm stays in a
womans body for 4 days then it comes out
as fluids.
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