Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: lancashite
Scared/15/shy Erectile Posted: 06-25-05 10:51am
Right well im 15 at the moment at soon to
be 16 and I have been having casual sex
with my gf who is 17 and its scary cause
it kinda is scaring me at the time of the
condom everything was fine and then it
just went and softened this has only
happened twice... Please please can
anyone help me cause im so scared im
thinking I love her so much and it doesnt
help cause shes insecure about herself and
feels unloved and thinks its her and ive
told her ive got a problem and its just so
scarey cause I can imagine me getting
older and not being able to please her im
scared about this and really wanna get it
sorted I dont know what it might be I dont
masturbate often anymore, and I dont mean
to offend but I can see this happening to
older guys not at 15 and its just making
me so sad...Please can like someone
reassure me about this...Its so messed up
cause I finished my exams yesturday and
ive had a few problems at home and its
makes me feel sick inside when thinking
about getting it up and it just wont get
erect...I really am unsure of what to do
would be grateful if someone would help
me.
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phoenix_fkr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: lancashite
Once Again...please Posted: 06-25-05 17:56pm
Look yeah, im sick of people looking at
this post and me keep coming back thank
you to following people who do post (if
any) im really scared and im one of those
people who will search the net until I
come across something like this and if you
have the same problem as me please join up
anywhere it doesn matter and get reassured
cause it will take you down if you dont im
truely scarred, I saw my girlfriend today
and she doesnt moind about this and thinks
it should like go away after 3 weeks cause
she's going on holiday and i'll try and
get over this...Please can anyone help me
instead of just looking and clicking back
on there window....
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talondarkx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 06-25-05 22:14pm
It sounds like what happens to everyone
stereotypically. Breathe in, breathe out,
and don't worry. If you keep worrying,
you'll give yourself a psychosomatic
reaction where you believe that it won't
work and so it won't. It was probably
just a freak occurence, a lot of sexual
virility depends on your state of mind.
If you're into it, then you'll perform
better than if you're nervous. If you can
masturbate, then it's just nervousness.
If that's difficult, see a doctor.
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phoenix_fkr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: lancashite
Posted: 06-26-05 06:29am
I cant even masturbate cause of of me
worrying and when I like try to its just
not happening...Im gonna go book an
appointment tomorrow
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phoenix_fkr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: lancashite
Up Under 30 Posted: 06-26-05 07:08am
Right,
i reckon its shyness now....I just like
well masturbated and it was ok it took
less then 30 seconds to get up and I feel
kind of better inside...When I was
washing,i dont know if this has anything
to do with it but the water was hot and it
kinda burned it, but that was like a week
ago and I was still functioning well and
its just when shes watching me...And I
have to do my bit....Its not as hard for
girls....Damn creation.
I mean im still normal and cheerful and
such but its just this problem I mean
everything was ok I mean its not bad at
home but at times I get a bit paranoid and
angry, and well its just I feel crap now
cause she has suggested to stop having sex
now! And its like "but its only stress"
and its annoying me cause shes like a girl
version of me which is ace but I just
annoying cause ive thought about this more
over 90% then yesturday and the day
before, also I woke up today and thought
what an ace day ive not got work school is
over now until I get my results things are
good at home....Then I thought what should
I do...
So I remembered my big problem (well
little to be precise) its funny how you
can take the piss out of yourself at these
bad times lol.... And it was like
"damn...So I came in here and then went
and just did what was natural and came
back and feel different now.
Also btw thank you to talondarkx for
replying I really appreciate it.
