Joined: 01 Aug 2004 Posts: 51 Location: philadelphia,pa
Another Baby Posted: 06-25-05 19:03pm
Does anybody have more than one child?
I want to know because my son is 9 months
and I am 18 and I want another one, only
because I just miss that baby stage. Now
he his is all over the place.
What do you think?
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babyblues
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2004 Posts: 94 Location: Windsor, Ontiaro
Posted: 06-25-05 22:15pm
Just wait I know you miss that stage but
it would be hard to keep out with two
little once
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mommy14138
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Mar 2005 Posts: 21 Location: New York
Posted: 06-27-05 07:36am
I am missing that baby stage too but I
waited 2 years between my girls so I knew
my first would be loved and spoiled. Plus
by the time my second daughter was born my
first was all ready potty trained so we
only had to worry about 1 bag of diapers a
week instead of 2
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Mommy 2 Four
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 06-29-05 12:13pm
I was the same way, lol, I missed being
preg as soon as I had my son. I got preg
with baby # 2 when he was only 4 mo old.
I love every min of it! If you are
ready, I say...Go for it!
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cknbb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2005 Posts: 35 Location: seattle
Posted: 07-01-05 09:49am
I've heard of individuals "missing the
baby stages" before. It's common I think.
If I were you i'd wait at least another
year so that the one you have now will be
a little bit older and possibly be easier
to care for while you have the baby.
I'm 23 and due in october. For me i'm
going to wait at least 2 more years before
#2 comes along because I think i'd handle
it better. Plus finances are an issue
too. I'm not married but we just bought a
house...And since we don't want to live in
an empty house, we gotta think about money
for furniture and decor.
You're 19? Think about what you want to
do with your life first. Do you think
you'd like to go to college for a couple
years and get some education so you're
more certified for a higher paying job
than those who don't do college? For me,
I finished my 4 year degree when I was 21
and i'm grateful that I didn't get
pregnant during that time because it's
hard to go back to school when you have
other obligations.
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-03-05 01:17am
That's unhealthy; wanting to create a baby
just for that reason is disgusting and I
suggest you go on Dr.Phil or something to
correct that mentality in your disfigured
head. And after you have the second
child, you'll want another one for the
"baby stage" experience, and another, and
so on...
Do you know why china has a law permitting
only 1 child per couple? It's because
they are horribly over populated, at
1,306,313,812 people thats 1.3638 billion
people breeding and over populating an
already resource diminished world. And
pretty soon, thanks to people like you,
having kids at such a young age and
without reason, the united states will be
this horribly populated and quite
unenjoyable to live in. Nobody in the
right mind would have a child for such a
trivial reason as wanting to enjoy the
brief "baby stage".
This lecture may seem harsh, but it's the
harsh truth. If you want to experience
the baby stage go work at a nursery, hang
out with some other parents who have a
baby, become a pediatrician; just don't
bring another mouth to feed to and consume
resources in a world which the population
of the dominating species exceeds the
carrying capacity of its ecological niche.
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-05-05 00:13am
You know what teen pregnancy is in this
country? You know what every study
describes it as? A problem. Teen
pregnancy is a problem. If you don't know
why its a problem then a)i can see why you
ended up having a kid and b)you're already
a bad parent.
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mum2beee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Posts: 99
Posted: 07-05-05 12:29pm
Ah good old cpl_jj.. Can never keep his
mouth shut as usual.. Why even reply to
posts when all your gonna say is stuff
people don't wanna hear?
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-05-05 15:07pm
mum2beee
wrote:
ah good old cpl_jj.. Can
never keep his mouth shut as usual.. Why
even reply to posts when all your gonna
say is stuff people don't wanna
hear?
read my hobbies :wink:
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mum2beee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Posts: 99
Posted: 07-06-05 12:17pm
Can just about be bothered to read your
posts let alone your hobbies!
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Jays mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 80 Location: England
Posted: 07-08-05 17:15pm
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what every
study describes it as? A problem. Teen
pregnancy is a problem. If you don't
know why its a problem then a)i can see
why you ended up having a kid and b)you're
already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the ages
13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child. I
have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the fact,
that you will then have 2 children, have
to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg. As
I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-08-05 17:20pm
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what every
study describes it as? A problem.
Teen pregnancy is a problem. If you
don't know why its a problem then a)i can
see why you ended up having a kid and
b)you're already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the ages
13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child. I
have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the fact,
that you will then have 2 children, have
to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg. As
I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
instead of having another kid, why don't
you ask the doctor how many cm's you were
dialated? If something that insignificant
can cause someone to have another baby,
then I fear for the state of the world.
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Jays mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 80 Location: England
Posted: 07-08-05 17:23pm
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what
every study describes it as? A
problem. Teen pregnancy is a problem.
If you don't know why its a problem
then a)i can see why you ended up having a
kid and b)you're already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the ages
13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child. I
have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the fact,
that you will then have 2 children, have
to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg.
As I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
instead of having another kid, why don't
you ask the doctor how many cm's you were
dialated? If something that
insignificant can cause someone to have
another baby, then I fear for the state of
the world.
they didnt have time to check how many cm
dialated I was....
You obviously have no idea about child
birth, so I dont understand why u
critisize people who want or have
children.
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-08-05 17:28pm
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what
every study describes it as? A
problem. Teen pregnancy is a problem.
If you don't know why its a problem
then a)i can see why you ended up having a
kid and b)you're already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the ages
13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child. I
have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the
fact, that you will then have 2 children,
have to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg.
As I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
instead of having another kid, why don't
you ask the doctor how many cm's you were
dialated? If something that
insignificant can cause someone to have
another baby, then I fear for the state of
the world.
they didnt have time to check how many cm
dialated I was....
You obviously have no idea about child
birth, so I dont understand why u
critisize people who want or have
children.
why does it even matter how big your
gaping hole was when your kid was born?
Who the f*ck cares, other than you? It's
so insignifcant, that it doesnt even
matter, and it doesnt warrant the need for
another child just so you can know how big
your vagina was. Any fool off the street
who knows nothing about child birth can
tell you that.
That would be like buying a new car so you
can watch the dealership put a "sold" sign
on the windshield.
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Jays mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 80 Location: England
Posted: 07-08-05 17:34pm
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what
every study describes it as? A
problem. Teen pregnancy is a
problem. If you don't know why its a
problem then a)i can see why you ended up
having a kid and b)you're already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the ages
13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child. I
have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the
fact, that you will then have 2 children,
have to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg.
As I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
instead of having another kid, why don't
you ask the doctor how many cm's you were
dialated? If something that
insignificant can cause someone to have
another baby, then I fear for the state of
the world.
they didnt have time to check how many cm
dialated I was....
You obviously have no idea about child
birth, so I dont understand why u
critisize people who want or have
children.
why does it even matter how big your
gaping hole was when your kid was born?
Who the f*ck cares, other than you? It's
so insignifcant, that it doesnt even
matter, and it doesnt warrant the need for
another child just so you can know how big
your vagina was. Any fool off the street
who knows nothing about child birth can
tell you that.
That would be like buying a new car so you
can watch the dealership put a "sold" sign
on the
windshield.
it matters alot actually.
U see, I dont know whether I dialated
really quickly, or whther I dialted really
slowly, with contractions I couldnt
feel.
And this information is needed, because a
woman who dialates to fast, can result in
extremly fast labour, which then causes
blood clots on the leg, which then can
lead to death.
Everything that to do with pregnancy and
labour is very important.
And another thing, I dont want a child,
just because I dont know how many cm
dialted I was, I want another child,
because I enjoy being a mother.
And another thing, your "vagina" as you
put is, does not get bigger... Your
cervis does, which is inside the vagina, I
really think you need to read some books
or soomething, because you are so
uneducated about this topic.
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-08-05 17:55pm
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
jays mommy
wrote:
cpl_jj
wrote:
you know what teen pregnancy
is in this country? You know what
every study describes it as? A
problem. Teen pregnancy is a
problem. If you don't know why its
a problem then a)i can see why you ended
up having a kid and b)you're already a bad
parent.
ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter,
and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont
stand for anyone saying that im a bad
parent. You dont know each person
individually, so you have no right, to
call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13
through to 70. Not just from the
ages 13-19.
I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in
fact its alot healthier to produce a baby
between ages 15-25 than it is at any
other stage. Where the body is still
young enough to get back into shape, also
you will get to grow up with your child,
and not be dead by the time your child is
thinking of having children, which trust
me, no matter what age you are, u want
someone in the delivery room with you, and
a mom is one of the first choices.
I think you are totally out of order on
what you said, just because you may have
decided not to become a teen parent,
dosent mean everyone else has to decide
that too.
On another note...
I would love to have another child.
I have lost one recently, and feel
empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I
also feel that I missed out on child
birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours
start to finish, for example, I was never
told how many cm dialted I was, and my
fiance wasnt there to share the experiance
with me.
I will suggest that you can have another
child whenever it is you feel ready for
it. As long as you understand the
fact, that you will then have 2 children,
have to spend months with sleepless nights
again, and still have to be aware that
your elder shild will be needing you just
as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my
daughter is a year old before ttc again,
but mainly because I am going on holiday
in january, and want spend my birsthday
getting drunk, instead of being preg.
As I was on my last birthday.
But good luck to you on whatever it is you
decide.
instead of having another kid, why don't
you ask the doctor how many cm's you were
dialated? If something that
insignificant can cause someone to have
another baby, then I fear for the state of
the world.
they didnt have time to check how many cm
dialated I was....
You obviously have no idea about child
birth, so I dont understand why u
critisize people who want or have
children.
why does it even matter how big your
gaping hole was when your kid was born?
Who the f*ck cares, other than you?
It's so insignifcant, that it doesnt even
matter, and it doesnt warrant the need for
another child just so you can know how big
your vagina was. Any fool off the
street who knows nothing about child birth
can tell you that.
That would be like buying a new car so you
can watch the dealership put a "sold" sign
on the
windshield.
it matters alot actually.
U see, I dont know whether I dialated
really quickly, or whther I dialted really
slowly, with contractions I couldnt
feel.
And this information is needed, because a
woman who dialates to fast, can result in
extremly fast labour, which then causes
blood clots on the leg, which then can
lead to death.
Everything that to do with pregnancy and
labour is very important.
And another thing, I dont want a child,
just because I dont know how many cm
dialted I was, I want another child,
because I enjoy being a mother.
And another thing, your "vagina" as you
put is, does not get bigger... Your
cervis does, which is inside the vagina, I
really think you need to read some books
or soomething, because you are so
uneducated about this
topic.
oohhh sorry if I don't know a womens
anatomy perfectly, i'm not obesessed with
trying to re-live a child birth so you
can find out some mundane details, you
stupid limey health forum. And don't you
think if something was wrong with you,
then the doctor would of told you that?
After all, that's their job, and you seem
to be uneducated on that topic.
*yawn* you bore me with your torrent of
caca nothing problems, I think i'll go
watch paint dry, as it's probably more fun
that your boring ass
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-08-05 18:02pm
Remember cpl jj knows everything about
pregnancy seeing as how he's been there
....problem
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-08-05 18:16pm
vanessalouanne
wrote:
remember cpl jj knows
everything about pregnancy seeing as how
he's been there
....problem
ooohh no! Someone called me an problem!
What's a matter? Did the guy who got you
pregnant make you get an abortion because
he realized your just a stupid health
forum and not worth the time? That's what
it sounds like.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-08-05 18:33pm
Seeing as how I have only been with my
husband and waited until marriage to do so
that would knock out your first caca
insult and two how I have never had an
abortion and never would...Ever. I have
morals and a heart unlike you, who by the
way is telling all these girls to abort
their babies so why do you make it sound
like it is a bad thing..Oh wait is someone
being a hyprocrite again?
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CPL_JJ
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 124 Location: Top of the world, bitches
Posted: 07-08-05 18:36pm
vanessalouanne
wrote:
seeing as how I have only
been with my husband and waited until
marriage to do so that would knock out
your first bul1health question insult and
two how I have never had an abortion and
never would...Ever. I have morals and a
heart unlike you, who by the way is
telling all these girls to abort their
babies so why do you make it sound like it
is a bad thing..Oh wait is someone being a
hyprocrite
again?
what makes you lie? You had an abortion
you're too ugly and stupid and the guy who
knocked you up clearly saw this and made
you get one. It's so obvious. Stop
trying to deny it. And shut up too, you
talk to much
