Getting a Women Pregnant When Your Gay Posted: 06-26-05 18:33pm
Hi I love everyone in the world and would
like to donate my sperm to any women who
wants it...
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chaosbob
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Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 148 Location: LA
Thanks Alot!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 06-26-05 19:06pm
You guys have something against gay
people?...No one ever
responds......Ever....
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mayhi
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Joined: 29 Mar 2005 Posts: 455 Location: Halifax, NS Canada
Posted: 06-26-05 20:04pm
Hi there.. Just read your forum. If I
were you I would wait till she has the
baby and have a dna test done to prove
that it is your baby. That way at least
you will know for sure before telling your
lover. As for having anything against gay
men, I have nothing against them, I have a
gay uncle and I love him very much. He is
no different than I am or anyone else!
Good luck and I hope that everything works
out for you.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-26-05 22:35pm
There was prob no one on at the time to
answer your ques...
Do u trust this girl? Did you not use
protection? How do u think your bf will
react? What do you plan on doing if the
child is yours? There a lot of questions
to be answered. If you really trust this
girl and are sure the child is yours then
yes, you have to tell your bf.
Hopefully things will work out for the
best. Please keep us updated!
Good luck.
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El
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 06-26-05 23:08pm
Hi there,
you've probably already discussed the
whole thing with your partner by now....
Either way..
If this girl really believes you are the
father of your child then you are in the
same position as any man who has had a
thoughtless moment, and maybe fathered an
unplanned child- gay or straight makes no
diference as far as parentage goes.
If the girl is 3 months pregnant already,
you are pretty much out of time as far as
termination goes, and she must be planning
on keeping the child. If she has waited
this long, she has made the descision
without you, which her right, but a bit
infortunate for you.
At this stage, until it has beeen proved
otherwise, you are the father of a child,
and will have to factor this into your
future.
Discuss it with your partner, as the
decision seems to be made already, and see
what you can come up with.
There is a big difference betwween being a
father, and being a proper dad, and
there's no reason why a gay man, or a gay
couple, can't be either, or both.
You may eventually come to think of it as
one of the best things that ever happened
to you.
I'm a woman, but I didn't plan to have any
children, I was taking every reasonable
precaution to aviod it, to be honest- but
found myself pregnant anyway, 3 years
ago.
I know wouldn't want to imagine the world
without my duaghter (now2and a half) I
wouldn't change my decision to have her
for anything. I am now married to her
father, and expecting her little sister on
10th november.
I wish you, your partner, your child and
your child's mother all the best, whatever
happens. Every family is made up
differently, there's no reason that you
guys can't make it work, if that's what
you want.
