I have a problem well not me my husband
you see my husband and I have been married
for a week have a wonderful relationship
our sex is great his problem is that
before we got married he could get off (
have an orgasm) cum in the condom but now
he cant and I know I need to be careful
but we've done the pull out method many
times which I know doesnt always work but
I have taken tests and negatives have come
which is good I was just wonderin does my
hubby have a problem now that he cant get
off in a condom he tried 2 last week and
nothing came but he has cummed on me ( my
chest) but he cant seem to cum in a
condom.
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 06-27-05 23:38pm
Him not being able to cum in a condom isnt
anything to be worried about, its not like
he has a problem or anything, my boyfriend
hates wearing condoms because it de
sensifys the feeling of being inside me
which makes it harder for him to orgasm.
Even though back in the day when he had to
wear condoms yes he was able to cum, but
it can change over time when you get used
to having sex with someone, you just want
the closest feeling you can have, you
should definatly go on birth control it
will take alot of worry away and then he
can cum in you or he can pull out
whatever. But nothing to worry about,
only thing you need to worry about is
getting pregnant, hehe, so try to get on
birth control if you can : )
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 06-28-05 09:30am
As mentioned, nothing wrong with him..
It's really is mainly psychological.
Especially after experiencing sex and
orgasming with you outside of a condom,
it's tough to go back. In either case,
use spermicide or bc pills (or better yet,
both.) until you're ready for little ones.
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diasflacleo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Brazil
Posted: 07-05-05 12:30pm
Well i'll tell you one thing.I had the
same problem and my wife started getting
sad and upset about this problem because
she thought that she was not providing me
enough pleasure and then we decided to
have sex without condoms and my problem
was solved. I noticed that when using a
condom the penis sensibility decreased a
lot in my case and that's why I didn't
reach orgasm. I think he has the same
problem!
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2269 Location: ,
Posted: 07-15-05 16:17pm
I know that my husband cant cum in a
condom because it cuts of circulation to
his penis? Maybe try having him get a
bigger condom? I know that condoms suck
because it can take away from the
intimacy. I would suggest get on the
pill or use some other form of bc.
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