Good morning ladies! Ok, so I have a few
questions and one is kinda gross. First
of all, how long did it take you all to
get pregnant? My husband and I have been
trying for 3 months now and nothing yet.
next... When ever
we try to get pregnant, I have him on top
and then I stay lying down for about 1/2
hour so that his "stuff" will stay in me.
Anyway, most of the time when I get up,
his "stuff" comes dripping out of me.
is this normal for it to always come out
after, or is this only happening to me?
If any of you could help, that would be
great!!
Greatly appreciated ~regina
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maura
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Joined: 16 Nov 2003 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-16-03 11:54am
It can take a normal healthy couple up to
a year to conceive. Relax and try to
enjoy sex rather than having baby making
sex. Hard to do, I know. It is a good
idea to have your husband on top and I
have heard to have him leave his penis in
for a minute or two after ejaculating.
Lying down for 15minutes is enough. It
is not uncommon for semen to leak out.
When your own mucous is fertile (wet and
stretchy usually seen after going poop) it
will hold his sperm and the rest that
leaks out is water under the bridge.
Having sex every other day is a good idea
too. Good luck and enjoy the sex.
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rmg421
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Santa Rosa
Thanks Posted: 11-17-03 00:07am
Thanks for the advice maura! I really
appreciated you taking the time to comment
on my question. Well, odd things are
happening with me. My period started
last night and I am not bleeding anymore,
well at least not now. So, who knows
what is going on with me!? I guess I
will see how things go the next few days
or so, maybe I am having what they call
implantation bleeding?
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LISAMARIE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Utah
Posted: 11-18-03 16:22pm
When I found out I was pregnant I started
bleeding and had some cramping and they
told me it was normal, probally just
implantation bleeding. But I went to the
doctor and I had miscarried. If you think
you might be pregnant go to the doctor
fast! Also I leak quite a bit after sex
and I was so worried that I would never
get pregnant because of so much stuff that
was coming out of me. But I didn't so I
wouldn't worry too much about that.
Best of luck
lisa
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minerwater
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-18-03 17:12pm
The stuff that comes out is mostly the cum
(semen) not the sperm.
The sperm is what swims to the egg, not
the liquidy substance that comes out of
the male penis. That is just there to
transport the little guys.
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megan_09
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Kansas
Posted: 11-19-03 23:53pm
i think the best advice for this question
is just to enjoy sex...
It also helps if your "stuff" comes as the
same time his "stuff" does.
The muscles contracting from your "stuff"
help bring his "stuff" up to the egg...:d
Last edited by megan_09 on 11-19-03 23:55pm; edited 1 time in total
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rmg421
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Santa Rosa
Thanks Posted: 11-20-03 19:18pm
Thanks for all of your help! We are just
going to keep on trying, and we are not
going to worry about it anymore. We are
just going to have fun. As for right
now, I am still on my period so I will
keep everyone posted! Thanks, regina
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blackjackqueen711
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2003 Posts: 4 Location: michigan
Posted: 11-21-03 00:20am
Sweetie there's no time limit to becoming
pregnant. My husband and I have been
married for 13 years and never used b/c
not even once...I found out I was pregnant
in july of this year! It was a both a
shock & a blessing, our situation was
a little different though because I have
thyroid problems and actually had my
thyroid removed last year...Most people
with thyroid problems have problems
conceiving or 90% miscarry in the first
trimester...I am not 6 months pregnant and
feeling great! I've had no morning
sickness (not even once) and my baby is
big and healthy! My point is people had
me so scared listening to their horror
stories of the sickness and labor that I
never wanted to have kids...But everyone
is different. I wish you all the luck in
the world...I am so happy and excited I
just can't wait.
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GB
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Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 2 Location: fLORIDA
White Liquid Posted: 11-24-03 18:43pm
Hello to all, I have a question; my wife
is approxamately 8weeks pregnant and today
she noticed some type of white liquid/
mucous coming out. We're a little
worried, should we be or is this common.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
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next... When ever
we try to get pregnant, I have him on top
and then I stay lying down for about 1/2
hour so that his "stuff" will stay in me.
Anyway, most of the time when I get up,
his "stuff" comes dripping out of me.
is this normal for it to always come out
after, or is this only happening to me?
If any of you could help, that would be
great!!
