Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Left Behind At the Altar Posted: 11-16-03 19:59pm
Hi all. Most of ya know me i've got most
my posts in teen pregnancy though. But
for those of you who dont i'll fill ya in.
Im 19, and 20 weeks pregnant with twin
baby boys. They're my little miracles
and I cant wait to have them to look after
all day long. I take care of my 14 year
old brother and have for the past 5 years
due to a tragic accident that left the two
of us as "orphans". Anyway thats not
why im on here. This past saturday
(november 15) I was supposed to get
married to my fiance scott. We had
planned this for ages and ages. The
sunday before, we had a fight and he said
he was going to stay with his friends
until the wedding so that we had some time
apart. So saturday morning I got up and
went and got my hair done, it had snowed
that night and there was a beautiful
blanket over everything the sun was
shining it was just sooo great. I went
back home and started to put my dress
on... Thats when I got the call from
scott. He was in cuba with another
girl. Come to find out they had met here
at a bar and just taken off... I had to
call everyone and cancel the wedding. 2
hours before it was supposed to take
place. I just dont know what to do im
in major shock I mean we spent years
together and im having his children. I
donno I just needed to get this whole
thing off my back and tell someone.
Sorry its long. Much love melissa
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manda panda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 33 Location: New York State
Posted: 11-16-03 20:59pm
Melissa,
hon, my posts are long. Don't worry about
it. Like I said earlier, we're here for
you.
Beast wishes.
Manda panda
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Mommy_2_b Posted: 11-16-03 21:18pm
Hey melissa, I have twin boys. They are 6
yrs old now and are very cute and adorable
and are doing great in school. I hope and
pray that your twins will give you a lot
of joy and happiness.
As for scott, what can I say. At least
you know you didnt do anything wrong.
I think its extremely insensitive of him
to fall for someone he just met when he
has you and his babies are growing inside
you.
I don't usually like to curse anyone, but
I hope one day god will teach him a lesson
and he will regret having done this to
you.
Best of luck with the future..
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phil dennison
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 71 Location: illinois
Posted: 11-16-03 21:33pm
This man may try to come back.R u n .First
have your babies.Second get him to pay
child support.Good luck!
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Posted: 11-18-03 07:03am
I dont plan on returning to him im to busy
looking after my kids and my brother to
deal with scum like him much love melissa
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 11-30-03 04:36am
It may sound cold, but at least you found
out before you said "i do." I still feel
for you. I cannot imagine how you feel
right now. But try to look at it this
way, you can make it without him, and he
at least gave you the two most wonderful
gifts anyone could ever have. And this
way, you do not have to spend months or
years in a marriage that you are miserable
in. Good luck.
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 12-12-03 00:42am
I am very sorry to hear what happen to you
but dont let it stress you out take care
of yourself and those babies and then deal
with that situation. He will get whats
coming to him.
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