Well bad news, I was back for a 3rd ultrasound today since they couldn't detect the heartbeat last time. There was still no hearbeat and the dr's say that I am about to miscarry since the yolk sac is now beginning to fold in and is no longer round. I feel sad about it all. I've only known I was pregnant for just over 2 weeks now but already I have built my mind up to everything and it's so disappointing for both me and my husband now that this has happened. What makes things worse is that I still feel fine.
They told me about the 3 options, waiting for natural miscarriage, the d&c or taking some pills(?) to progress the miscarriage. I said i'd probably rather just wait for natural miscarriage so they are going to have me come in once a week for the next 3 weeks to check how things are progressing. If nothing happens by then they recommend d&c.
I spoke with my mum on the phone today about this. She had a miscarriage before and opted for the d&c at the time. Friends had told her that having a natural miscarriage can mean severe stomach cramps and really heavy bleeding. Now i'm not sure whether I should have just opted for this and then it would all be over and done with much quicker and painlessly. Does anyone have any experience or advice on either option?