We've All Been Hearbroken - Yeah, Me Too

Hi everyone,

i'll try keep this short, since I found this forum by error, but there was such a vast number of worthy topics, I had to join. My name's not really janet - you'll notice my profile says i'm an actress - nothing to get excited about, no ego problem here, I can assure you. Actually, I just came out of a bad break up and it hurts - yes, even us "stars" get hurt... Lol.. Okay enough with that. Anyway, I think I might be able help at least one out of a thousand people who read this, since problems seem to repeat themselves. I went to this counselor in vegas - supposedly had a good reputation - he got me out of a couple of real entanglements with my emotions. Obviously, I can't mention his name (frank - that won't hurt, I guess:.) this guy sent me on an online excursion - what he does is spend 4-5 hours a day just searching for people to network with or recommend. He gave me this referral for an online program that has to do with having your heart broken in relationships. I have to say, it was better than just that...Anyway, the point is this: there are a lot of people out there like me who like to take some self initiative when it comes to solving their personal problems. The title of that program...Geess, now I have to leave the site to go get it again... Okay. How fitting this title was... "relationships: is it me?" at first I didn't know how to react to that title, but then I realized that it was talking about me... People who blame themselves have nothing good going for themselves - a better way of putting it, don't blame yourselves for those breakups - it's a waste of time - I really learned this with that course. Just search the title in a search engine, you'll come up with it... That's how the Dr. Got me to look for it and it came up like #1... The biggest point is there are some resources out there that really are worth it. Sure there's some dead wood - but I like what I found. The people really care there and the guy who does these short little narrations sounds kinda cute lol .. Anyway.. That's beside my point... I'll check in later.