Hi
do you think it is ok fo rme to date a
married man. He wants us to get intimate
and all but I refuses can I still go out
with him or just forget the whole issue
altogehter?
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-17-03 16:55pm
Hi nictra,
it's completely up to you what you do. I
guess purely dating this man and not
getting into a sexual relationship all
seems harmless enough, but no matter how
much self control you have, feelings will
develop, it's natural. This guy obviously
loves his wife, or he wouldn't still be
with her, you need to be able to accept
the fact that he only wants one thing from
you and that's all. He certainly won't
let it get too serious or start spending
lengthy amounts of time with you in fear
of ruining his marriage. Men who cheat on
their wives make me quite angry, as I have
always believed in monogomy. Cheating is
dishonest and if his wife found out she
would be so hurt and her life would be
completely ruined. It's really up to you
to make your own decision nictra, but you
need to look at the consequences and
consider others who could possibly be
hurt.
Take care...
Suzy
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Nictra Posted: 11-17-03 17:23pm
My advice is not to do it. There are lots
of single men out there.
Why take a chance and have a potential
mess on your hands by going after a
married man?
Besides, he is just looking for some extra
pleasure on the side and using you as a
tool. He won't be able to give you any
kind of security in life.
In the end, do what your heart says...
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oana23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 41 Location: TX
Hey Girl... Posted: 11-17-03 19:52pm
I would'n do it ! What goes around comes
around ! Belive that and you don't know
what crazy whife will get you back, it
just looks like a lot of trouble and a lot
of stress , that you can just do whitout !
But than again it's your desicion.
Oana23
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dulin22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2003 Posts: 7 Location: ms
Hi Posted: 11-17-03 22:33pm
I wouldn't do it either. Just think if
you were married, you probably wouldn't
want your husband to do that either.
Think about it before it gets
too serious.
Dulin22
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-18-03 13:07pm
I wouldnt do it. Your helping him cheat
on his wife. Just imagine that it was you
and your husband was cheating. You
wouldnt be too happy either
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 11-18-03 13:15pm
Get rid of him & go find a man who
doesnt belong 2 some1 else
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goodstuff33
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: Urbana, IL
Posted: 11-20-03 02:12am
Do what you prefer to do. Just dont think
this guy might be the one. He is
married. Take it from me...A guy. By
cheating he really doesnt care about his
wife....He just wants play bc he is
sexually frustrated...And he wont care
about you.
