Hello, i'm 19 yrs old and married. We
just moved from indy to ohio so that I
could go to the college here. I took a
year off after high school. We've been
together for 3 1/2 years, married since
april. We didn't start having sporadic
sex until 2 years into it. We either
used the pull out method or a condom.
We've been using a condom since we got
married, but we don't use it the entire
time, only when he gets close to being
fully aroused. Most of the time prior to
april, we didn't use a condom because we
weren't supposed to be having sex anyway,
so why have them around only to further
entice us. Anyway, I usually have my
period toward the end of the month,
roughly in the early twenties. And now
it's the 5th of july, and i'm getting
worried. I've read that early symptoms
may include sore breats, but what does
that mean? I've never really experienced
any kind of pain or soreness prior or
during any of my periods. But now i've
recently noticed that my nipples are
sore/sensitive, and I really don't think
they ever have been before. I totally
and completely cannot have a baby now!!
I think I might seriously lose it mentally
if I was. I'm going to college to ride
and train horses, cannot do that at all
pregnant. I'm writing so much cause i'm
so nervous. I would even seriously
consider adoption, but my husband
absolutely refuses that, so, having a baby
is out of the question for the both of us
right now. Please help, I hope i'm just
parionoid!
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nancyms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Posts: 166 Location: texas
Posted: 07-05-05 11:51am
Take a pregnancy test. You are late
enough in your period that you will test
positive if you are pregnant. If you
aren't I would really suggest taking the
pill. If you want to prevent pregnancy,
use birthcontrol at all times. If you
have unprotected sex you are bound to get
pregnant, and the pull out method isn't
too safe.
