Help!!!! I'm loosing it compltely, and
i'm stuck. I'm dating the sweetest,most
gentle greatest guy, and we're having a
great time togheter, he makes me realx, he
tells me how he feels about me, wants to
meet my friends and wants to se me. It's
going well. But out of the blue i've been
hit by sheer panic about loosing him. I
come home from work and it's like a
tingeling sensation in my body, then it
feels like all the blood drains from my
head and I am overcome with completely
unrationalized fear. Fear of loosing him,
fear of him leaving me, fear of him faking
his feelings afraid of being alone. I
know in my head that this isn't logic,
there is nothing to support my fear, but I
cannon control it when it comes, and it
comes so fast, with me not being able to
stop it. I can't eat, afraid of waking up
and being in the same place., when he
calls I relax and tell myslef that "see he
called, he cares" but a few hours later
i'm back again... I need help, someone
please!!! I had a bad experience with an
ex who left out of the blue, and that was
the first time this anxiety surfaced, but
this guy's still here, and with no
intention of leaving (as far as I know)
anyone???
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Jin Moto
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: San Diego CA
This Could Root From Something Deeper. Posted: 07-06-05 05:36am
Were both of your parents present
throughout your life?
Did one ever leave or was there a divorce
between them where you never saw one of
them?
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Jin Moto
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: San Diego CA
Posted: 07-06-05 05:38am
Believe it or not thoe are relevent
questions :).
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Jin Moto
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: San Diego CA
Posted: 07-06-05 05:40am
If a parent has abandoned the family or
was not present in the home, and maybe if
you didnt see one of them often, that
could get your internal wiring to
automatically fear abandonment or anything
in that area, this could be why your
fearing that your boyfriends going to
leave.
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Anettb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Norway
Happily Married Posted: 07-07-05 04:30am
jin moto
wrote:
if a parent has abandoned
the family or was not present in the home,
and maybe if you didnt see one of them
often, that could get your internal wiring
to automatically fear abandonment or
anything in that area, this could be why
your fearing that your boyfriends going to
leave.
i grew up with both of my parents present.
They've been maried for over 40 yrs, and
they are very happy. I cannot seem to
find the source of this fear and panic,
and over the past 2 days it has encreased.
I'm now waking up with it there, pressing
through my system, and every other second
I try to controle it by talking myself
down, but it's like it owns me... And me
suddenly being like this is painful. This
is not me. What is this fear? Am I
picking up on some vibe he is sending me,
or is it just old memories resurfacing??
I've made an appoinment with a
psychologist, but I have to wait until
august 16... Thank you so much for trying
to help me! Feels better when someone
cares!
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