Im 25 years old and not long ago split from my ex and a few days ago we had unprocteced sex and he ejaculted abit in me but not alot is there a big chance I can get pregant as I cannot go through it all over again as my body is not ready for a baby and im not mentaliy cuse the last time I had a misscarrige he said he wants me to go on the pill but I v heard theres side affects is this true also is there any other form of contraception to stop me getting pregnant without side affects cuse I want to do something about asap and my period is meant to be due the weekend as I have been bleeding abit on and off I still live with my parents and I cannot tell them becuse they will ban my ex from coming to see me over it they tried to do that before I really need advice plz as I really need to do something before its too late cuse I dont want to be unhappy and with a baby I cant look after as I want to go have a career and cant if this happens as my ex dont have a job neither so it would be diffult :(